Men are not emotional beings. I don't want to say they don't care but they don't care as much as we care that's certain. If they were sitting there crying we would be comforting them not snoring. Dont be sad. Whatever is have a good cry and let it go mama. It will get better.
@believeinbuddha I wish it would get better. I'm just having trouble seeing it get better. We've been fighting a lot. And faught last night. But,. We made up. Snuggled and went to sleep. He comes back today and I was hurt that he didn't come home until almost ten and I had been home alone. Then he decides to break up with me. I know I'm overly emotional lately. Cause well I can't control my emotions right now... but I guess I'll cry a little longer and finish getting everything ready for my doctor appointment tomorrow
@maesmommy04 awe I'm sorry. I had the same situation happen earlier. We all got into a fight because of something that happened to me and my husband ended up turning on me and threatening to evict me. I'm not speaking to him currently. Just spent 4 hours away from him in the house but in different areas. Just ignore him when he's like this. Dont let things get to you. Be the bigger person and learn to pick your battles and set the tone. Its important to treat our significant other the way we want them to treat us. No matter how they treat us as long as we keep up the behavior we want reflected it starts to happen. Trust me. I've done it. My man was such a jerk when we first met. But he's getting to be more of a softie now that I voice my opinion.
@believeinbuddha it's just really hard. I try not to fight. I try to get over things. He's an ass yes. But he's always been so good to me. Ever since we got this positive test. He's been doing everything he can to get me to leave. I love him. But feel like I'm gonna be walking on eggshells tomorrow. Never mind the fact that I'm not gonna be able to sleep on this damn couch.
@maesmommy04 you sure are having your babies close together. Maybe he is just getting overwhelmed with the thought of taking care of two? Maybe reassure him by making a few positive comments like "you're a great dad" Smile at him. Like a genuine smile. Its contagious. Human nature is to smile back. That might make him in a better mood.
@believeinbuddha honestly neither baby was planned. And I do tell him he's a great dad. And tell him how much his little girl loves him. I can't help but to smile when I see them together. I know he's worried about tomorrow. That much he's admitted. We lost our first one. So we're pretty worried about my pregnancies until we get to see the little mini human.
Buddhist Mama·
Men are not emotional beings. I don't want to say they don't care but they don't care as much as we care that's certain. If they were sitting there crying we would be comforting them not snoring. Dont be sad. Whatever is have a good cry and let it go mama. It will get better.
Kimberly Leturgez·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)
@believeinbuddha I wish it would get better. I'm just having trouble seeing it get better. We've been fighting a lot. And faught last night. But,. We made up. Snuggled and went to sleep. He comes back today and I was hurt that he didn't come home until almost ten and I had been home alone. Then he decides to break up with me. I know I'm overly emotional lately. Cause well I can't control my emotions right now... but I guess I'll cry a little longer and finish getting everything ready for my doctor appointment tomorrow
Buddhist Mama·
@maesmommy04 awe I'm sorry. I had the same situation happen earlier. We all got into a fight because of something that happened to me and my husband ended up turning on me and threatening to evict me. I'm not speaking to him currently. Just spent 4 hours away from him in the house but in different areas. Just ignore him when he's like this. Dont let things get to you. Be the bigger person and learn to pick your battles and set the tone. Its important to treat our significant other the way we want them to treat us. No matter how they treat us as long as we keep up the behavior we want reflected it starts to happen. Trust me. I've done it. My man was such a jerk when we first met. But he's getting to be more of a softie now that I voice my opinion.
Kimberly Leturgez·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)
@believeinbuddha it's just really hard. I try not to fight. I try to get over things. He's an ass yes. But he's always been so good to me. Ever since we got this positive test. He's been doing everything he can to get me to leave. I love him. But feel like I'm gonna be walking on eggshells tomorrow. Never mind the fact that I'm not gonna be able to sleep on this damn couch.
Buddhist Mama·
@maesmommy04 you sure are having your babies close together. Maybe he is just getting overwhelmed with the thought of taking care of two? Maybe reassure him by making a few positive comments like "you're a great dad" Smile at him. Like a genuine smile. Its contagious. Human nature is to smile back. That might make him in a better mood.
Kimberly Leturgez·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)
@believeinbuddha honestly neither baby was planned. And I do tell him he's a great dad. And tell him how much his little girl loves him. I can't help but to smile when I see them together. I know he's worried about tomorrow. That much he's admitted. We lost our first one. So we're pretty worried about my pregnancies until we get to see the little mini human.
Kimberly Leturgez·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)
@believeinbuddha by the way. Thanks for talking to me. I feel much better! :) I may not have a solution but no more tears! :)
Buddhist Mama·
@maesmommy04 I'm so glad. You are doing a great job it sounds like so just keep it up. Relationships have ups and downs 💪 you got this