Feeling really depressed ..just found out I’m pregnant with my second child a year later . Just…

Why do you feel depressed

@terresa.nash, I don’t want to be pregnant. My daughter is only 17 months so knowing I’m pregnant again is just killing me right now.

Yeah I know what you mean my daughters are 8 years apart so I had the opposite feeling I felt like I couldn't deal with the age gap but aleast in your situation your kids will be really close like my girls and your getting the kids out the way

@des_farr, my kids are 16 months apart and im pregnant again with my third. Dont be depressed. I was too when I found out about my third pregnancy but I gradually became more accepting and now im excited

I feel you . My boys are two years apart . I was depressed and just hated life . Talking to someone helps. Unfortunately I didn't and felt disconnected with my second .

@morgan.k, yes this is part of the reason . It hurts to think that my focus on her won’t just be on her anymore . I feel like she deserves more than that . Secondly I just don’t feel ready to give my body away to another human being .. I was just getting comfortable.

@anayeliserrano, yeah I’m only a month from what I know and I haven’t told anyone yet . Just my husband knows . I kind of feel ashamed to even tell anyone . It’s so soon I feel like . I get excited for a couple hours and then I just immediately get extremely depressed . I just want to cry .

@virgomama94, I really hope my mindset changes !!

@des_farr, I would wait to tell anyone else . Once you feel comfortable you don't need anyone being judgmental . Have you talked to your doctor ?

@morgan.k, mine was born may 11th lol

@anayeliserrano, yeah people would probably be judge mental about it but hey I am married so it really isn’t a crime and for all they know it could have been planned lol yeah but I am going to wait until I’m ready to tell everyone .