If finances weren’t stressful enough, my husband is really pushing my buttons. I mean is it wrong to…

I would be mad.

@damiensmommy1117, I honestly think he’s cheating....

@denisalozic717

😞 I'm so sorry. I don't know about you, but I would have to know. I would become the best detective you've ever met... Would he be honest if you just calmly flatly asked him?

@damiensmommy1117, I’ve had a discussion with him it eased my mind for a couple of days but things just aren’t adding up.. he lies about small things with a straight face so no I don’t think he really is telling the truth.. his phone is always on him password protected (which he’s never given me the password) and he’s never home. When he doesn’t work late he goes out until 1 in the morning. Tonight he didn’t even tell me he he was home. & we haven’t had sex in over a month and it’s not at all like him, we’re usually intimate 2-3 times a week.

Have you asked him why he has a password on his phone? Or why you're not allowed to know it? Idk if it's just me, but I feel like if he wasn't doing something he shouldn't then he wouldn't have a problem with you knowing his password.

@damiensmommy1117, he stated it was for work purposes and he wasn’t going to give me the password until I gave him my trust.

@denisalozic717

What an idiot honestly 🙄 that's the stupidest logic in my opinion. I have complete trust in my fiance, but we both have the other's passwords for literally everything because we're honest with each other. If he was being honest you wouldn't feel the need to ask for it. Men like that annoy me 😵

@damiensmommy1117, that’s what I would like complete trust both ways but it isn’t there. Prior to that discussion he’d always go through my phone and then I had enough. I put a password on mine and told him if he wanted it he’d have to give me his password first. And that was a year ago... no progress since then. And here we are now. 😞

@denisalozic717

I'm sorry hon, he is being extra shady... I really hope you can find out the truth and get some closure or be able to move on from him. It just doesn't sound like a good relationship anymore 😞

@damiensmommy1117, I really hope so to, I wouldn’t wish this upon anyone.

@denisalozic717 I know this is going to sound silly, but I'd request the password or split. One or the other. Making a request like that from you should be respected. Period. It isnt difficult, and if its been going on that long then that means hes got something to hide. No more. End this. The code, or someone needs to leave. I'd take not having the code as that hes cheating, period. I wouldnt stay with someone whos cheating, lieing, and not open and honest with me. Its that straight forward. All hell would break loose for me, if it was me i simply wouldnt be okay with that!