Today I’m just in a pissy mood. I meet the guy my mom likes yesterday only to find out he’s a piece…
Today I’m just in a pissy mood. I meet the guy my mom likes yesterday only to find out he’s a piece of worthless scum today. I liked him for her but he’s a scum bag(these are the nicest things I can say with out wanting to cuss someone out). I do get a job! Which is great until I tell my husband and he says we’ll just wait until you start working...like he’s now not happy that I finally am working again. I haven’t been working for 2 months...bills are coming up and I want to use my car to do side jobs that make quick money but my husband keeps taking my car instead of using his own because my car is nicer. I can only work outside for short times because I get hot quicker. Then I realized my husband has money he’s just not telling me...and it makes me feel bad because he is working hard but I thought we were supposed to grow together. So now I feel bad about myself for not contributing. And he doesn’t help me feel better.
Harley Quinn ·
My two cents, money shouldn't be a secret in a marriage. While it's great he is working hard, you need to know about certain things like money and money that is being saved. Especially if there comes a time that you might need it.
Harley Quinn ·
But I do think it's okay to have two separate savings. Like you have one and he has one, that way you can splurge without feeling bad every once and awhile.
Shae·
@littleonemorning, so my husband was a veterinarian in Nigeria he talked to me last night. He told me he wasn’t hiding it but just saving it to do business. He buys pet items here which I know about and ships it.
Harley Quinn ·
@shaeslove, okay, that's completely different! But I still feel that money should always be on the table. If that makes sense
Shae·
@littleonemorning, yeah it should be. I might have been over reacting a little because I’m stressed about bills but I know if I ask him to pay them he will
Harley Quinn ·
@shaeslove, don't be afraid to ask. I've been stressed with bills too, but I've learned that men don't understand our level of stress of things. 😂
Shae·
@littleonemorning, we usually split everything but I haven’t working
Harley Quinn ·
@shaeslove, don't feel bad.