@raquely 😂😂😂😂😂half of them I'm not gonna use cause I wanna breastfeed

So I guess do that. A baby shower and request on the invite to please gift items: bottles, diapers, wipes and if you like gift cards and cash. I think it’s a good idea.

@raquely I was just gonna get the things that I needed instead of paying for the place food games decorations etc...and just have a shower where they only bring bottles diapers and wipes

@t143 I don't want to have a baby shower at all tho.

Here is how I would do it if I have another child: gender reveal/diaper shower. So I would write on the invitation to please bring diapers or wipes as a gift. Gift cards or cash are also welcomed. Then do a baby shower with all the items that I need in my registry.