Does anyone else's husband/boyfriend get really aggravated when having to take care of the baby? He…
Does anyone else's husband/boyfriend get really aggravated when having to take care of the baby? He loves her to death and he'll take on the cuddles and play time all day long! But...when it comes to feeding her he gets mad bc she eats too fast and she gulps! When it comes to changing diapers he don't do the shitty ones but for the very few pee diapers he has changed she has peed on him every time! So that don't help the situation! He won't help her go to sleep when she's fighting it! Why can't I get help with the hard stuff? (Well not hard to me but for him it's like he don't know what the hell to do) but what pisses me off is with my oldest he did all those things! He was also 17 and not working IDK....RANT OVER!
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Have you spoke to him about this ?
Summer Dehart·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@glo023 Yes! So many times! But his excuse is he works and yes he does work long hours and I don't ask for help when he gets home....but he does have 2 days off a week....but still nothing!!
Summer Dehart·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@glo023 plus when I try and talk to him about it it starts an argument always!
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I completely understand when it comes to working and you come home tired but babies comes with responsibilities well children. Moms are tired too and we still pull through. He just has to understand you can’t do it all on your own it’s a team effort. I’m sure things will get better but communication is the key. Good luck hun.
Monica·
Yeah, he works all day, but it's not like you sit around doing nothing all day either! Even mom's deserve some time off. Why does he get mad that she eats too fast? Wouldn't he be happier that it doesn't take forever? But really, if he wants to enjoy the fun of a child he has to do some of the dirty work too.
I'm sorry....I had this discussion with my fiance months ago, and he's doing really good with help when I need it, but he doesn't always know when I need it because I don't always feel right asking after he worked all day, which leads to frustration on both sides.
Summer Dehart·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@nomli yes it always ends up in a fight. And IDK he's weird...noises aggravate him like when she gulps....he's just got a bad temper and gets frustrated easy!