Someone PLEASE tell me y’all see where I’m coming from because apparently I’m being a selfish bitch.…
Someone PLEASE tell me y’all see where I’m coming from because apparently I’m being a selfish bitch. 😒
So, David’s brother and his fiancé moved to Knoxville in like July. Ever since, they’ve been behind. In August we literally paid their rent for them to keep them from being evicted. Then we paid a bill or two. Then we bought them groceries.
Now they’re asking us for $400 to keep from being evicted AGAIN. Plus we just paid their part of the cell phone bill for the 9th month in a row. PLUS he’s asking David to buy him a video game, PLUS they’re trying to move back here bc they obviously can’t cut it out in Knoxville, and he asked David if they could stay with us.
FIRST OF ALL: I don’t like his fuckin fiancé. She’s disrespectful and has talked shit about all of us, including Isabelle. I’ll be DAMNED if she steps foot in my house. SECOND, we lived with them for almost a year and they are terrible roommates. Messy. Don’t pay bills. Eat all the food. THIRD, we literally live in a two bedroom 900sqft apartment. We have no room for them.
I also feel like he’s taking advantage of David. This is the fourth or fifth time he’s asked us for money. We have bills and rent too. We have a child to care for. We have expenses too. We can’t support two families. It’s getting ridiculous and David literally doesn’t see where I’m coming from! I’m not trying to be selfish or petty, but I don’t want to get behind helping someone else catch up bc I know for DAMN sure if the tables were turned, they wouldn’t have helped us a single bit.
Bitchy Trophy Wife 🏆👰🏼·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)
I totally understand where you’re coming from. Totally. However your husband doesn’t. Tell him they can live with you for x amount of time (I’d say one month) to get on their feet then they had to be gone. They had to pick up after themselves and pay for their own food and help pay the bills. And why the fuck are y’all paying for their cell phone bills? Cell phones are a luxury in my opinion.
Bitchy Trophy Wife 🏆👰🏼·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)
And another thing why would they think they can make it in Knoxville? That place is super fucking expensive.
Hannah Clark·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@damn.it.red, His brother is on our phone plan. Has been since they were 18. Honestly they really can’t live with us at all. Our lease specifically says if we let people stay with us for an extended amount of time (longer than a week), they can evict us. That’s what I’m worried about the most.
I just feel like it’s one thing after another. We’re spending so much on them that we can’t even save money. It’s so ridiculous. They moved on an impulse bc his fiancé pretty much planned it all out and said it was happening. No preparation. She was 8mos pregnant. She went into labor early and they’ve been behind since. It’s just so annoying because it feels like it never stops. He supposedly makes $16 an hour and she’s a server but they’re still not able to make their rent? I feel like they just don’t have their financial proiorites in order and they’re just coming to us bc we keep giving them money. I feel used.
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Its a good thing to be a blessing to someone and to help family in need. Yet to much help can be a hinderace and allow folks to take advantage of your kindness! Sir them down and the what in the world they doing with their money! Give them a deadline to get their crap together. And after than tell them you can't keep taking care of grown folks! Your hubby and kids are your responsibility.
Bitchy Trophy Wife 🏆👰🏼·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)
@scurlock.mommy, it has to stop. That’s how my MIL is. You can’t help someone that isn’t willing to help themselves. They aren’t willing to help themselves if they are constantly coming to you for help. Something has to give. And if you can get evicted why does your husband want to risk that?
Saybre Elizabeth ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I wouldn’t let them move in with you. 🤷🏻♀️
Saybre Elizabeth ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
And he’s making more then my fiancé does, how in the hell are they behind??
Rikki🌙·
Buy him a fucking video game?! Hell no. Y'all have by far been helpful and now you're just being taken for granted and used it seems. I wouldn't let them move in if you've already experienced it before and know how it will be.
Vivianne Soto·
Nope. 👎 no way! I was just dealing with some horrible roommates who did the SAME to my fiancé. Omg, reading this post makes me so angry. Lol not at you but, just in general I hate people who take advantage. They feel entitled to it! Once you stop helping them & they have to help themselves they won’t be there! They won’t do the same things you’ve done for them. 😡
Hannah Clark·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@lana30319, @damn.it.red, @mommabear1517, @sabreycastro1996, @rikki.ferguson, @viviannecsoto, David gave him half the money. 😒😒 I’m so pissed off right now. I told him if he ever gives him a penny more he’s being taken off of the bank account. I told him absolutely nobody is moving in with us no matter what, and if he lets them, then we can transfer the lease to HIS name (it’s currently in mine and mine only) and he can pay for it by himself with the bank account he doesn’t have. I’m so sick of this and I’m being made out to be the bad guy. I feel like Isabelle and I are literally coming last and his brother is coming first. We were struggling for an entire YEAR and they didn’t help us. We didn’t even have any sympathy from them. Instead his brothers fiancé just made bitchy comments about how we were “irresponsible”. I feel like I come dead last in his list of priorities and I’m about to hit my limit.
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@scurlock.mommy I understand we all come across hard times. But when two adults can't hold their own and constantly taking advantage of someone that had given their last to help them is "irresponsible". A man is supposed to take care of his household first! And your BIL is gonna have to fall on hard times solo for once to realize how to raise a family.