I'm so over my in-laws. They were helping with the baby while my so was in the hospital and I was…

I'm so over my in-laws. They were helping with the baby while my so was in the hospital and I was with him for 10 days. They go off the grid with my child for 4 hours then lie about where she was but I'm in the wrong.. seriously haven't heard from all but 1 of his family members in 3 weeks even just to see how he has been doing.. but I'm the devil spawn in all of this keeping my husband and especially my child away from that environment. Who can ignore this gave for 3 weeks.