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Brianca Murphy
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Last night around 9 my back started hurting really bad i’m 23 weeks 3 days.....so i decided to take a warm bath and soak…

Last night around 9 my back started hurting really bad i’m 23 weeks 3 days.....so i decided to take a warm bath and soak in the tub with my bath salt. It kinda eased the pain but barely..... i was only in for maybe 5 minutes before I started having really bad belly pains. It was the worst...... i called my hubby who thankful works literally a minute away. He was here in no time....otw to the hospital we went.....the pains in my belly was almost unbearable....right along with the pain in my back..... we get to the hospital and i get sent to L&D; they check Baby which everything is perfect 😪 i was so worried my baby was in danger ....the whole time I’m laying in my bed the baby is bouncing off the walls and it’s making me laugh because i just felt like that was my baby way of reassuring me that they were okay. even the nurses laughed because my baby kept kicking the doppler 😂 . so after 4 bags of iv fluids and antibiotics , 4 hours in the hospital .....i was told i was extremely dehydrated.....and it’s was causing braxton hicks contractions.....never experienced anything like this before.....i’m just thankful that my baby is growing healthy and strong and that i’m okay also. I was told this could be one of many trips to the hospital before the real deal 🤦🏽‍♀️

So I had my baby at 12:46am but I’m asking for prayers or any good vibes sent my baby & my way. I had to have an…

So I had my baby at 12:46am but I’m asking for prayers or any good vibes sent my baby & my way. I had to have an emergency csection (never had one before either so still freaking out that I had one) because my placenta abrupted & now they transferred my baby to another hospital to give him care that this hospital doesn’t provide since he can not breathe on his own and he is going to be getting blood transfusions as well & they are saying it can go either way for my baby and I’m literally heartbroken and had no where to let out this except to you mommies on here that have been so helpful and supportive and positive to me.. I’m sharing a picture of him but he is hooked up to machines.. please keep my baby in your good thoughts & that he’ll pull through.. the most traumatizing experience I’ve ever had & I’m so worried about my little baby..

Is it rude to not want anyone at the hospital?

Is it rude to not want anyone at the hospital? I was just informed that my MIL wants to be waiting at the hospital so as soon as I pop out the baby she can rush in to be with the baby. I am really a private person and dont really want anyone at the hospital when I give birth (except my husband). I was planning on calling all the family to come to the hospital once I was all cleaned up and ready for visitors. Am I being rude? How do I tell them I dont want visitors a minute after pushing out a baby?! I would like some private time for just my husband & I!