I’m having a baby girl,Any advice I want to be the type of fun loving mom I want to get along with…

I’m having a baby girl,Any advice I want to be the type of fun loving mom I want to get along with her in every way I want to be extremely close with my daughter and I want her to have a fantastic childhood,My father wasn’t in my life much here and there but mostly out of the picture my mom let him back in to our life’s and he ended up molesting me I think that’s one of my biggest fears that someone’s going to try and touch my daughter how do I protect her from that how do I tell her to be very careful even around the people she trusts?!