Is it wrong to want to keep my child from my baby daddy’s mom? She hasn’t liked me since day one bc…
Is it wrong to want to keep my child from my baby daddy’s mom? She hasn’t liked me since day one bc she said i “trapped” her son by getting prego. Then she says this is gnna ruin his life by having the baby. Never wants me to come over. Acts fake af by being nice to me n then walks away has my baby daddy go with her in the other room then talks a bunch of shit about me. I feel like if she isn’t happy now and is gnna bash me n my child b4 the baby is even here why give her the privilege of being able to meet my baby when it’s here. Any thoughts?
Danielle ·
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That is ultimately our decision but the way I see it is, is you guys have issues it’s best if you talk about it because at the end of the day that is your baby’s fathers mom. She is going to be in his life regardless. If you guys have issues, then it’s between you guys. You shouldn’t stop his mom from being a grandma to her grandchild because of your differences, unless she does something to harm. But you never know she might turn the other leaf once baby is born.
Kristina Longoria ·
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I feel like she shouldn’t be able to change it. She is so disrespectful about it now. She’s kicking her son out bc he stood up for me the other night when she was bashing me n our baby. I’ve done nothing to her but be nice. She literally just don’t like me bc I’m preg. He even tells her if she can’t learn to respect me n the baby she won’t b able to be around. Like I told him. Idc if she likes me or not but she needs to stop saying this baby is a mistake n all that.
Danielle ·
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@kri2182999, yeah then maybe it’s best if you separate yourself from that situation...
Jennifer·
Мама сына (1 год)
Keep your distance and your significant other should be standing up for you. But I’d personally let her see the child every once in a while if she deserves it if not then no. Put remember your child your rules but you’ll also have to take in consideration your SO feelings
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Honestly I don't think it's wrong
I was in the SAME situation with my baby daddy's mom and she was mad that I didn't get an abortion and made racial slurs about my daughter
Best decision I ever made was not allowing her around my daughter
Sometimes it's just better that way mama