We lost a close family friend in the Las Vegas shooting. My husband asked if I would like to attend…

We lost a close family friend in the Las Vegas shooting. My husband asked if I would like to attend the funeral (because we wouldn’t have childcare) and we agreed it would be worth a shot. I would like to be there to support her family. I asked when the funeral would be and he said next weekend..my birthday..I didn’t say anything and said I would like to go. Looks like I’ll be spending my birthday at a funeral this year ☹️