@tattooed_mama that's true. I only had disappointment with my first pregnancy in was like omg why am I the only girl.in the world getting stuck with a girl lol...childish

It just depends. Like for me my first was a girl and second was a boy. When we started trying for our 3rd we hoped for a girl, we got a boy. Then since we had 1 girl and 2 boys , we tried again for another girl, but got another boy. Lol. I think if you already have a girl and a boy "gender disappointment" isn't as disappointing.