To the mommies of multiple kids I have a question: okay so my son is 1 so he doesn’t understand that…
To the mommies of multiple kids I have a question: okay so my son is 1 so he doesn’t understand that mommy is having another baby I feel kinda bad because he didn’t get to enjoy being the only child n he is so attached n clingy to me so my question is how do I equally show love to him n the new baby without feeling like I’m neglecting him because he’s still a baby himself
Terrinicyia Lameshia 🌹·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)
exactly he still the baby himself so thats going to be kinda hard its enough love to go around
FineAhhMilfMuva·
Well my son is 3 and I just had a new baby and my son is extremely jealous but your just going too have too work around it and make him feel as comfortable as you can . So much love to go around don't stress about it hun it will all work out . I thought it was going too b so terrible but it's going ok so far just stay positive 😄
Emily·
Мама двоих (младенец)
It's hard not to feel like you are neglecting them. Honestly there will be days where you feel like it and it will break your heart but you can only spread yourself so much. Just try as much as you can to hang out with him when you don't have baby. Everything will be ok. He won't remember this so that's a plus and in the long run they will be besties
Emily·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Also have him start doing things with dad that you do with him so it's not so new with the baby here because you will be busy with baby
Buddhist Mama·
Involve him in the baby coming. Like asking him if he wants to.give kisses, grab diapers when its time to change the baby's butt, helping you hold the baby with close supervision of course. He won't understand he's a brother until the baby gets there. But you could buy him a doll and have him practice being gentle with the baby before he gets here
Jytte Birden·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
@believeinbuddha, @ecahanes, @ecahanes, @supermom__, @morgan_dremom, thanks ladies I’m really racking my brain about it but I hope it works out for me
Imani Butler·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I was like that too I recently had my 2nd boy and my 1st boy was only 1 I think he will catch on after baby is here just like my son. Don't feel bad it'll work out
Imani Butler·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Imani Butler·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Imani Butler·
Мама двоих (младенец)
It'll be ok you'll see
Jytte Birden·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
@beatheaboysmommy2, ur babies are 1 year and 5 months apart too ? And I hope he does cuz he’s still my baby
Imani Butler·
Мама двоих (младенец)
You'll see they will be okay. At first it'll be a little jealousy as expected. Yes they are 18 months apart. I was pregnant with my 2nd son before my first son even turned 1
Jytte Birden·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
@beatheaboysmommy2, sorry for the late reply but me too my son was 7 months old when I got pregnant again