Well I went in for my doc appointment to see if by a chance things were progressing today, they did…
Well I went in for my doc appointment to see if by a chance things were progressing today, they did a ultrasound and again they found nothing, that was followed by them telling me that My pregnanacy test came back negative. I honestly believe I know now why this happened, due to stress and My Fiance and I always bickering and fighting! I also caught him talking to a EX when we got home from the doc appointment. Im so lost, stressed, and just almost completely done with this crap, did it once the first time we were engaged and now here we go again.. round two! Will I ever find a good man! Do they even still exist!? Like for reals!
Pam W·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года)
They do. At least that what I'm told.
Maria Whitfield ·
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Yes, good men do exist. I know what it's like I have been in your shoes with my fiancé who has done the same exact thing, but I know he's a good Dad and he loves and cares about me. Men are going to make mistakes no one is perfect but you have to let him know what you are feeling not by yelling because no listens to anyone who is yelling at them. Having a genuine conversation about what it is that makes you upset and when you ask a question wait do press for an answer just wait it gives him time to really think about what you said and shows him that you really want a real answer.
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@mariaw13 Thanks Mama!! I really am trying to talk to him!! I know he loves me and is a great dad to my son but I just dont want to marry him and it be a big mistake because we are both stressed out and I don't want that in my new marriage. I have been married before and I don't want to go through another divorce
Maria Whitfield ·
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So have I this will be my second marriage and I told him that I don't want to get married again and it fail like my first and he let me know that when I am ready to marry him he'll be there, even though we both come from very catholic families but our traditions are different because he's from Thailand. The only thing is that you both have to want to be together in order to make it work if one wants it but the other doesn't you can't force someone to be with you.
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@mariaw13 That's very true. I think he just misses the party and single life. I feel like I hold him back. After all he's only 27 and I'm 26. But I want a marriage and family. The first time I was married at 19. Never once did I think he and I would end up divorced at all.
Maria Whitfield ·
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@prettynpinkk2617, We are pretty much the same. I'm 28, he's 30 and the first time I got married I was 19 and was married almost 5 years before I got divorced and was single for a long time before I met my fiancé and we even broke up because he was still talking to his ex's and he realized that they really didn't want to be with him they just wanted his money. I've never been the one to go back to someone after breaking up but I knew he was the one and before we go back together he had to prove to me that he changed and there was no one else, now we a little girl on the way and we never been happier but like all relationships we still have some issues but communication is what makes everything work