I've noticed alot of people judge me because I tell my kid not to cry over stupid shit and to not be…

Preach🙌

@ljsmommy22 like if he does something, for example, run on the hot deck barefoot, after I've told him no and that will hurt his feet and then he hurts his feet, oh well that's on him and he will learn from it but my grandparents look at me like I just smacked him across the face. No, maybe he will learn to listen next time and that he needs to keep his shoes on. Learn by doing or learn by just listening. Your choice kid.

Completely agree!

Yessssss exactly. Kids have to learn consequences👏

No mam, ignore these people who do not live with your child. I am very hard on my son, and he knows crying is not a real option--only under extreme circumstances! He also is taught not to let anyone make him cry! My son is now 7, and he is a gentleman but strong in controlling his emotions. I think that my intolerance of crying and unharnessed emotion is one of the reasons why he is so balanced in temperament. I agree!

@sittingprettyrose same. Im not a crier and neither is his dad. We can't stand it. Now I get it if he trips and smacks his head or bites his tongue or something like that yeah sure, that shit hurts and he's still young. But I won't have you screaming and crying in my face because you're mad you can't climb the stairs.

@meetthevalentines2017 Trust me! I don't even have the patience to live that kind of lifestyle. Where I'm begging a child to stop crying. Listening to crying is not the way I chose to feel their pain. If they aren't bleeding or experiencing a concussion, etc, I ask them to calm down and redirect their attention to something that would distract them and move forward! I cannot manage that type of emotional behavior, so why even put myself thru it. Temper tantrums and screaming is not normal and more mothers should realize this. I just refuse to have my baby parent me, I parent the child! 💯

I do the same shit with my son I have 0 patience for him to cry over things that’s not so serious

My 13 month old girl will fall off the couch or hit herself with a toy and try coming to me for comfort. I just kind of look at her and tell her "well mommy told you to be careful and not do that" I look her over make sure there's no bruises or scratches and tell her to go play. My step sons will be playing then come running to me telling me the other hit or pushed him and I look at them and say "ok and what do you expect me to do? Go play"

I am the same with my kids

Amen!!!!!! Im going to be the same way!

I parent my son the same way!! There's no shame in it, and if people don't like it then oh well... look the other way or just don't say nothing period!! I have 2 rough and tough boys now, and my daughter will be raised the same!!

I parent the same way but my 6 year old still cries over everything. She's incredibly emotional and drives me insane because I'm not like that. She's also a huge tattle tail so I'm trying to nip that in the butt too.