I made the DECISION to leave my ABUSIVE baby father...after this last time when he pulled me out the…

I'm going through something similar. I haven't told anyone the things that have happened between us to anyone. Lately I've just been more scared because our baby is also due in 4 days and I'm terrified of having her around him when he gets in his mode.

You mamas need to leave not just for your own safety but for the safety of your babies and kids. I've been in an abusive relationship, no matter what they say they will never change and they will eventually start treating your kids this way. Not only will they be a danger to you but you can get your kids taken away because of their abuse! Lead by examples and leave those POS guys. Real Men don't behave in such a manner, believe me!

Please please get help leaving! Go after legal protection. Confide in friends and family, ask for help! No one needs to do this alone when there is so much help available.

@pretty1npunk, ^^^

@pretty1npunk

EXACTLY!!!because u feel like he would hurt her just bcus he knows how much it would hurt u right..im debating on letting bd even come to hospital, for the simple fact that i want it to be as peaceful and drama free

@sadiesue0718

Thats wut i said. I SAID MADE THE DECISION TO LEAVE HIM ALONE..i went through it with him for almost 6 years..and 4out of six years scared for my life...it just cones down to the REALITY OF IT, LIKE U SAID they will never change and if so it would only be for the worse..IM DONE..

Its either BE DONE, or end up DEAD

@pretty1npunk, @raepriceless, I hope you guys stay safe and seriously leave and get some help, peace of mind and have a better life. You deserve it. 😞 im dealing with a shitty man myself who likes to play mind games and be controlling. No one deserves to be treated wrong. We all deserve better 💔

@thecreatress

I know right

@pretty1npunk, @raepriceless you need to do what’s best for the baby. I left my husband once I found out I was prego bc of how abusive he was. I mean I had a black eye on our wedding day and even got in a fight on our wedding night. It’s hard to leave I stayed married to him for 2 years b4 leaving and the ONLY reason I left was bc of my baby. I’m here if u ever wanna talk!!

Well it's so hard because we are married and he is the sole provider right now and he uses it against me. That is exactly the reason why I'm trying so hard to leave. I feel like he would try to get to my through her. He threatens me so much and blames me for his actions. I try so hard not to upset him but it's like I always have to be afraid to speak.

@pretty1npunk, I was the same way!!! I felt like I had to walk on egg shells with him! There r soooo many resources out there that can help u. Don’t let him have the power over u. It took me awhile to walk away. And even now there r times I break down and call or text my husband but Ik I did the right thing by leaving. At times I miss him more than anything. But I’m happier not having to be afraid every day of my life. It’s hard but in the end it’ll be worth it

@kri2182999

Yea ikr..but i do feel kinda stupid tho when i call or text him..all i kno is i could NEVER 4get the torture he put me through..yes girl im shollnuff betta without his ass

@raepriceless, don’t feel stupid! Just means u love him! Not the abusive him but the sweet him the real him. I use to go to dv support groups and I felt so dumb bc all the women there left there abusers and I was still with mine. I’ve been separated from mine for almost 3 months now. It’s still hard but Ik In time it’ll be the best choice I made.

I'm really trying to do what's best but a sick part of me loves him. He has done and said some horrible/ unforgivable stuff to me and I still feel love for him. I always said I wouldn't be "one of those girls" you know but now I am and I feel so stupid. Sometimes like right now I wonder if it's me.. if I do this to him because it wasn't like this before and he says his never done this to anyone else before.