My sister in law is starting to annoy me. She is constantly feeding my daughter junk 24/7, she is…
My sister in law is starting to annoy me. She is constantly feeding my daughter junk 24/7, she is constantly giving her juice I mean about 5-10 cups within a few hours, she never gives her water because she doesn't drink water, she is constantly making remarks on our house. Me and my husband work all the time, we have a daughter who makes messes, and we have two dogs who also makes messes, our house is not going to be spotless every second of the day. She believes me and my husband have money falling from the sky. We don't we have bills a lot of bills. All she has is her phone bill and whenever she gets a car, car insurance and gas. She is constantly making remarks like "you guys have to many responsibilities," "my brother was home all day he should have the house spotless." No we don't have to many responsibilities it's called being an adult and yes he was home but he was dealing with a sick child who had an attitude, he drove me to work and brought me lunch and picked me up, he took her to her job interview that I got her and he had a doctors appointment.
Avah Cruz·
You need to put your foot down with the junk and juice. She is YOUR child. It’s easy for people to make those comments and assumptions when they don’t have kids, wouldn’t worry about that too much. Just communicate how you’re feeling. If you keep it inside you’re not going to
like your sister very much.
Deanna·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@anacort, yeah she lives with us and it's driving me insane.
Deanna·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@avahcruz, My husband talked to his sister and I'm hoping he got through to her or I'm going to have a talk with her and it won't be pretty. I had my daughter on such a good eating routine and she hardly ever had juice or any junk at all. Only time I gave her things like chips was maybe twice a month. I swear my sister in law has eaten 10 family size bags of chips with my daughter in three weeks. It's so unhealthy and I'm starting to get anxiety about it. It's driving me up the wall because she has no kids. She doesn't understand what it's like to be an adult although she's 20. She's never had any bills other than her phone and car insurance to pay so her remarks are annoying. She's about to be 21 and is barely figuring out what being an actual adult is like. I'm 21 and I'm way more mature and have more common sense than her.
Eryka·
I’d just stop having junk and juice in the house and just go buy a small amount when you want it so it’s not there to give to your baby. You have a lot of self control cause I would’ve blown up on her by now😂 she seems really childish and if she thinks the house is a mess then she can clean it. If she wants to complain then she can do something about it! She doesn’t work so what’s she so busy with that she can’t help out more? Also tell her not to give your daughter juice at all just water and that you will be deciding when and if she should get juice.