I see some moms dilating so quick meanwhile my water broke on its own 40wks 4days ... I wasn’t dilating so I had to be…

I see some moms dilating so quick meanwhile my water broke on its own 40wks 4days ... I wasn’t dilating so I had to be induced .. 30 hrs of labor and 3 hrs of pushing he wouldn’t come on his own so I had nurses pushing on my stomach holding my legs and I got cut open from my vagina to butt to suction him out 🙃🙃🙃🙃 I had such a terrible experience lol