Is it me or did anyone else feel like this. I've always had my own things (car, apt, job) and since…

And I need tires and rims for my car because they are bent and he said he needs to save for a car but when he was mad yesterday he was saying he's gonna get an Xbox and wants to get a good phone company and get an s8 and all this. And I really don't trust him with a car. He had a lot dwis and when I would go to sleep he would take off in my car. So if he had his own it wouldn't last long but I don't want to tell him that. Ugh I feel stressed because I feel like I can't tell him anything because I know he can walk out when he gets mad and leave me with the bills because it's all under my name and not his so he wouldn't care.

You should figure out cost of bills and gas and he should give you half if he is living same with groceries

@mommysbabies this check was a free check we didn't have to pay anything this week. But if we are gonna go half while I'm not working I rather get a job and he can go back to his parents. He acts childish and argues with my 6yr old

Oh boy

@mommysbabies I was trying to make it work because we are expecting our 2nd together but idk. The other week he cashed his check and was all showing my 6 yr old the money like who does that? Hes 30 yrs old btw

Wow time to grow up

You should sit down and have a talk with him. Explain how you feel, tell him he's being immature and he needs to make better choices. I was the same as you. I had everything on my own and then I met my fiance and he was struggling. I had to help him with everything at first . We finally had a talk and slowly things changed. After I had my son, I officially stayed home but do a little part time work from home and help him with his company. I felt bad for using his money but in the end i realized it was for our family and for his kid. Whatever money he makes goes to me now so I can handle paying all the bills and he holds onto a couple hundred for gas and food. If he's not willing to buy you new tires so you can drive your kids around safely AND take him to work, then maybe he's not ready for a REAL relationship. Do what's best for you. I'm here if you ever need to talk ❤

@_danggg I really can't talk to him without him getting mad and being loud and cussing at me. He acts like a female. So I try to avoid it because it makes me mad the way he acts. (Slamming doors etc) he's been drinking since he got off of work and hasnt came home still. Ugh. Im annoyed.

@mom.of.girls my mom keeps telling me to work it out since we are having our 2nd kid together. She says I need to be nice and it's because I'm not used to someone living with me and me sharing my things. 😏

@d0iinjusfiin3 girl. My guy gets pissy too but you just gotta be upfront. Tell him to get his shit together and quit treating you like this or he can have visits with his kid because he needs to leave. Plain and simple. You shouldn't be in a relationship where you're afraid to express yourself

Update on this post** I sent him back to his mom's with all his stuff because he decided to disappear for almost a whole day and all night the day he got paid. Smh back to doing things on my own and how it was before. Now I need to look for another job.