When your mother says that she not claiming your unborn child because of who you decided to marry and that after the…

😲 what happened to unconditional love?!

@shorty02, my mother doesn’t know how to Love if it doesn’t involve money

That's when I would be like okay bye!! 👋🏼 if my mother ever said anything like that especially about my child I would cut all ties!!

@tyoungdeer, that’s what I plan on doing.. my baby shower is Saturday and after that we will go back to not talking ...

Sounds like she's trying to control you. You do you mama. As long as you're happy it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of your relationship. She's not the one giving you the goods at the end of the night so she has no say in it.

@lucifermommy, and then when I try to talk to her if it’s something she doesn’t want to hear she shuts me down and keeps talking about everything she wants from me and everything she has done for me

Sounds like a poisonous person. I'd cut ties too. It's your life to live with who you want and how you want. You're a grown woman and she has no right to try and control you, you aren't a child anymore

@lucifermommy, she doesn’t see it that way... in her mind I have lied on her to the family about how she is but when she talks everything is about money and what she has bought me growing up and she’s mad because I’m nothing like her... has told my husbands mother that I’m not the child she raised and she doesn’t know who I am

Lmao I'd look her in the face and tell her that I am who I am because I do NOT want to be like you. Raising kids isn't about materialistic things, it's about love and being there for them.

@lucifermommy, told her that too but it was like she couldn’t grasp that concept

My mom always tries to parent my kids and says she knows what she's doing because she raised 6 kids. And I always tell her yes you raised 6 kids and all of them hate you and dont want you around.

@lucifermommy, lol I tried to be nice and just ignore her but then it’s like the more I ignore her the more she sits here and try’s to say hurtful things and then claims I disrespected her because I chose to live my life the way I wanted

Nope 😐 ridiculous

@tholliswilliams, she doesn’t think so

@mitiacarolina3 she is punishing a child because she is mad at the mother for living her own life and doing what makes her happy. That's ridiculous and sounds very controlling

@tholliswilliams, that’s what I grew up with but let her tell it she was a great mother and I have been spreading lies about her to the family