Moms I need advice we have a chance to start a better life back in pa but we are helping his dad (long story but he…

Moms I need advice we have a chance to start a better life back in pa but we are helping his dad (long story but he needs us to help him out for a while) we have talked about me moving there nd starting it up and then my husband will come out once he's done helping his dad my thing is I want to do it but I don't want him to miss out on anything as far as the baby we are 3mo away nd time is flying pass I'm also scared becuz what if him helping his dad take to long nd I'm out there by my self with a newborn... My question is am over thinking things should I just go nd do what has to be done for us to have a better life.