Sooooo, since the hurricane is over in Florida my friend and my aunt both ask me " do u still wanna…
Sooooo, since the hurricane is over in Florida my friend and my aunt both ask me " do u still wanna move to Florida? I wouldn't move to there if I was you , you know they're the first ones to get hit by a storm and u will be always running for cover" smh maybe I'm thinking negative about this but it seems like since they don't ever wanna leave this little town of Mobile, Al.. they scared to have new life somewhere else where there is way more opportunities. They want u to live the same simple life as them and don't anyone to build a new life outside of Mobile . Then my aunt says well What are y'all gonna do if someone gets really sick? It's gonna be hard to come where u are smdh they're trying to scare me so I can change my mind on leaving this place of no freaking opportunity unless u are a freaking nurse.
Any words advice or words of encouragement you guys 💆
Erica·
I knew you were from the south I'm from Mississippi and they have the same mindset
Victoria·
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@gnelle Ain't it sad tho 🤦🤦 and how did I give my country self away lol ? It was the "guhhhh" I be using all the time ain't it lol but yeah it's like they want u to venture out smdh
Victoria·
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@gnelle trying to talk down on your idea or dream just because they're scared
Erica·
@vicky810. 😂 right..I needed to run away fast and not look back there is something always wrong with somewhere else except where they're at in a small town
Erica·
@vicky810. R u sure you didn't cross state line into ms..
Victoria·
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@gnelle lol I'm close to the state line tho
Erica·
@vicky810. I'm pretty sure it's the water then my family did the same thing when I moved to Nevada they tried to scare me out of not going I tried anyway I also tried working from home they told me it was going to be a scam and I was going to get my identity stolen I have been working for the same place for 6 years now you have to step out on your own if it doesn't work out at least you tried I tried it and I love it
Lauren ❤·
Honestly, being from Florida, it's the same as Mobile, most job opportunities are in the medical field unless you live in the bigger cities in South Florida. That's why I left. I love Florida as it's my home state but definitely not many opportunities for 20 something's
Victoria·
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@gnelle it had to be in the water smh thank u for the uplift ☺️ how long have u been living in Nevada 😊 I'm happy everything worked out and you're right if it doesn't work at least I tried
Erica·
@vicky810. That was the first place I moved to in 2010 been in Virginia now since 2012 find something that motivates you my main thing is my children you're most definitely welcome try new things in life and not everybody has to be in on your plans move in silence and let your success be the noise
Victoria·
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@gnelle AMEN 🙏🏿
Victoria·
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@gnelle thank u 🌹🌷🌺
Carolina·
Мама двоих (1 год, 18 лет), ждёт третьего
Do your research and make your decision. I moved to Florida 8 years ago from NJ (where I lived all my life) and haven’t looked back ever. I left a good paying job and my close family and friends. I tried to not share my decision with a lot of people, I didn’t want to hear any negative comments specifically from people that haven’t even been here. Just spoke to a few people here in FL for their input. I’m not going to lie it was hard because I moved during the worst economy time (2009). But in return I bought really cheap and a almost new home. Going back maybe I should have purchased this home and hold on moving until economy was better. My mortgage was only $500, I could have pay it and have it as a vacation home until everything picked up. But I really needed the change and so did my family. My husband is the kind that doesn’t like changes and was not 100% on board. But you ask him now and he doesn’t even like to visit NJ even though he still has his siblings over there. I’m a sahm and he has a good paying job. 2 of my siblings moved here and it was the cherry on top, as I’m very friendly but I’m very picky as to who I have as close friends to hang out with. What’s the worst that can happen?, it doesn’t work for you and you can always go back. Best of luck in your decision. Let me know if you need to talk more. 😉
Victoria·
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@laurenray93 thank u 😊
Victoria·
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@laurenray93 where did u end up going
Victoria·
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@aprilhearts thanks sooooo very much and yes I would need to talk more about which areas that would be affordable and morless family friendly ☺️☺️☺️ ive been doing research but it's nothing like talking with someone that actually lives where I'm trying to located to🙂 I will be in touch with many questions lol thank u so much 💜
Victoria·
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@butterfli_luv girl, amen🙏🏿 thank uuu for the uplifting words🙏🏿 u right that's what they trying to do but that's what I get for opening my mouth .. I will take the rest of my steps in silence 👐🏿
Victoria·
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Folks can't just be Happy for u that u have an open mind like that. Mike's parents aka hubby parents was happy that we want to move they said that this place ain't no place for young adults . @butterfli_luv
Victoria·
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Luv you ladies 🙌🏿 y'all got a chick feeling way better 🙏🏿 ❤️❤️❤️ y'all brought the positive vibes back 🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Lauren ❤·
@vicky810. I moved to San Diego with my ex who was in the military. He actually got restationed in Florida ironically, but once I figured it wasn't working out he left and I stayed. And I'm glad I did. I love San Diego. Life is hard bc it's a big city but there's so many benefits and opportunities. I recently got a job with a great small company that is growing, and they allow me to work from home and are working with me on Maternity leave as well. Obviously, I'm not saying move to a big city but definitely do your research and if there's a career field you're interested in try and find a place that allows for you to grow. 😊
Steffanie·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Honestly Just sounds like they don't want you to go... trying to scare you
The hurricanes don't happen as often as it seems.
That was the first if one since 2004 when Charlie came through.
Victoria·
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@laurenray93 I'm not gonna lie I did think about moving that way as I do have a lot of family that way and moved from Moreno Valley California in 96. But I know it's lovely out that way and I'm happy u decided to stay 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 thank u for the uplifting words 🙏🏿
Victoria·
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@steffaniedexter that's exactly what they're trying to do . And they don't realize we have our natural disasters also and for one we don't even get warned about it just happens "tornado" ... It's just sad that your people close to u don't want u to be happy and experience life . This would be a new scenery I knowone of the mamas stated that Florida is like mobile and Lessing you are in a big city and I understand that but it will be new scenery and I'm pretty sure Florida has way more opportunity in Mobile mobile literally had none nothing ! Lol I do wanna live close to Orlando if not in Orlando tho 🙂🙂
Steffanie·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@vicky810., we are on the outside of orlando near Disney. Quiet area called four corners
Everything is about an hour away. Gulf coast and east coast beaches
Attractions
All highways are within ten minutes
We like it but I want something new too! I've been here 11 years!
Steffanie·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@vicky810., but do you! Don't let family hold you back. You can always go back if you don't like it
Victoria·
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@steffaniedexter I feel ya on that🙂🙂 that sounds like something I'm looking for I will give that a research ☺️and u are right I can come back but I won't been here for a lil over 20 years and I'm done . Now theres no saying that I might move close back to home but it would NEVER be mobile again . Thank u for your advice 😘🤗