Feeling pretty lonely today . Husband is able to go hang out with his friends without baby and me .…

I understand how u feel, i think we all feel like that. Do u have any friends?

Here is a good place to vent as well

I hear so many moms talk about feeling this way. I feel this way all the time. If I stay home alone with the ba y too long I get really sad and really down. We need adult interaction. It's so normal. A baby is not enough socialization.

@mommy1991 so true I also miss just going out for dates with the hubby since he got his new car I've been jealous of it

@pnutbutta I do but she has her own thing and I sometimes feel as if I'm a bother to her .

U could always tell that if u ever become a bother to let you know, that way you dont have to ASSUME. Im sure she would love to spend time with the both of u.

@pnutbutta yes I should

Tell ur bf to commit to a date night once a month

@pnutbutta Good Idea ! I'll let u know what he says thanks miss

Good luck

@pnutbutta soo it's a no go maybe I'll ask another time . He came in from work got mad because I closed the bedroom door to keep it cold in the room . Then says a remark about how we can't stay in the room all day . After that says guess we're not having dinner. I made him lunches and dinner and Jordan's food .Sure knows how to put me down .

Yeah today is not the day. Try on a better day. Dont let him get u down. Try to go out with ur friend too. Jave a monthly girls day

@dizz_d, hey, in all honestly I feel like we make it too easy for men to go on with their lives as if there wasn't a new baby in the house.

I know exactly how you are feeling... a couple of my friends are feeling this way too and it's not fair.

Men don't realize they are lucky to go to work, they are lucky to be able to go out, they are lucky to continue on with their lives as we are the ones who create, birth and care for the baby. So I think we should make them step up their game.

I have had feelings of guilt, jealousy and even hate towards my husband because his life is normal and mine has changed so drastically.

Yesterday, I sat down with him and explained how I felt and what I have been going through in the last couple months... I put it in his perspective....I said what if tomorrow you find out you cannot drink, smoke, eat sushi or do anything you are used to... on top of that, you feel like shit, you grow huge then you birth a child, your body gets destroyed, your hormones are crazy ... you don't sleep etc...

He was very apologetic for not being more supportive and kept asking how he can help... so we made a plan to share duties.

I feel like we always try to be heroes and just let them go out and have their life... however, we forget we are the ones performing the hardest tasks and we also have to give ourselves a break to feel normal and live our own lives.

I did just that the next day . Explaining him how I felt . The problem my hubby is he is very forgetful and being bipolar doesn't help the situation. I need him to have a good sleep or else I pay for it even more . But I do tell him what I need done witch is what has to be done with him. I am stuck with what I just have . I do love him and I'm the type of person that just wants the best for anyone and everyone . It some ways it makes me happy. Without my husband I wouldn't of have my lil man. I will do my best to raise him right . Men are just stupid sometimes my husband even said himself . He's the browne and women are the brains of the marriage .