My mother makes no sense at all . When my son was almost 18 months she was telling me to give him a…

My mother makes no sense at all . When my son was almost 18 months she was telling me to give him a sibling and don’t let him be the only child. A few weeks ago I told her that we are ttc, I thought she was going to drop ! Now ever since telling her whenever my son has a tantrum or if I get annoyed she piped up and says “ are u sure ur going to be able to handle another kid” . 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 , she’s never dealt with a boy so she doesn’t know how it is at all . She says she doesn’t know what the rush is to have another one right now , my son will be 2 in January ! It takes 9 months ! Lol I’m not popping one out tomorrow or a week from now , idk how much more I can take dealing with this 😩