I’m going to be so mad if my dude misses another birth because he won’t speak up / stand up to his…
I’m going to be so mad if my dude misses another birth because he won’t speak up / stand up to his family 😡😡😡😡😡😡 our last son he missed the birth, he runs his fam business with his brother in the bay we live in sac though. Last time I went into labor he was too afraid I guess to tell his family I was in labor and didn’t come and right now he just started working back over there and I told him he better not miss this birth and he said he can’t make any promises like what ??! Your child Is coming into the world and you’re going to act like a little punk because you’re afraid to stand up To your mama and brother ? I’ve never met his mom (she doesn’t want to meet me) I’ve met his brother once but that’s it. But if he misses another birth for no reason I’m going to be so pissed off and hurt.
Ranisha Barrow·
В ожидании первенца
Sorry you have to go through that. I mean is his family not understanding? Idk how I would feel in your shoes especially if he knows it hurts your feelings
Jes ·
@neat_neat2, his mom disapproves of him dating outside his culture and i don’t think his brother cares too much
Jes ·
@neat_neat2, just makes me mad that he even said I can’t make any promises like no if I call you and say I’m in labor be on your way as soon as possible, they can run the business a few hours without him- they’ve been doing it for months until today
Ranisha Barrow·
В ожидании первенца
@thecreatress, I agree I mean I see if it was a situation he couldn’t get out of but I mean he can easily say look I’m gonna be there for the birth of my child, I mean it’s only right. It’s unfair to you and especially your children. As a mother his mom should really understand but I guess she’s blinded by differences. I really hope he makes it this time.
nancy tejeda·
Мама сына-младенца
:( so sorry you have to deal with that type of thing. You would think people have common sense but sometimes it ain’t so common. We think sooo different from men I think that’s why we end up upset because we expect things from them that they sometimes don’t even think about. Hope he finally stands up for his family (which is you and your babies now). ❤️
Jes ·
@neat_neat2, he better :(
Jes ·
@lionesssmommyy, I hope he does too. One too may times is too much. He really made it seem like we’re not a priority just now and I didn’t even know how to respond to his excuses
Mia 👑·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (26 нед.)
@thecreatress, she’s doesn’t wanna meet you? What a pos what about her grandchildren like seriously
Jes ·
@mamamiaof2, she refused to meet my son too. Idk. It really sucks. sometimes I wonder 🤔 if after all these years he’s lying about how is mom is but that’s what I’ve been told. I’ve only met his brother once that’s it. But he says she doesn’t even like his brothers girl who’s he’s been with for 15 years.
Mia 👑·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (26 нед.)
@thecreatress, that’s absolutely terrible I’m so sorry girl