Why Can't We Spread Positivity and Respect on This Forum?
I want to clear the air on here with newbies and oldies, married, single, young and older mothers, and sexual preferences (list too long).
This is for mom's and women who also would like to become mothers as well
With that being said ladies stop nit picking and getting upset if someone comments on your post that may seem controversial. If you post suicide and sexual preferences, drug preferences, CAS cases that you may be facing regardless of age is really sad and unfortunate for anyone to have to deal with. But some mom's on here lately only or I should say are posting about depressing issues. It's great to vent and share struggles but not every single post needs to be about your mental state of mind. There is help out there and most of us are not trained professionals so no matter what we say can be perceived as mean. Just because you may be young and single or not sure who your baby is for (example) I don't care personally I won't lose sleep over it but I can empathize with you all to a certain extent. We all have a story regardless of our current position, to say married ppl are judgemental is in attack in itself. Some women have zero help some husband's are great (nobody has a perfect life) I feel discrimination on here because im a 40 yr old with a 11 month old baby and married. Its like if your married or older you have all your crap together and that's bull. I know a 25 yr olds who are in better situations than myself so what. I had my first kid at 20 father did not contribute 1¢ for my son who is 19. My second child the father was very present and I wish he wasn't and my now husband is a good man not perfect by far but better than the other two for sure, and yes I have three kids who don't have the same father. So how is my life perfect because I'm married 😲 give me a break. Spread some positivity on this forum we need a balance. There is also private messages because honestly some things need to be kept private ( like being horny, or penis sizes). Share some good things like my baby kicked or funny quotes etc. If you get feedback from those who choose to go above and beyond can also message privately. Ladies let's be mature and respectful it's a two way street. Some of us leave our everyday stress to come on here and chat and change our minds, take a break check in on one another and so forth. If all fails block the ppl you dislike or have nothing in common with even the ones who don't say anything but just post for business purposes. I ain't hating on anyone's hustle just be mindful of everyone. Agree to disagree and keep it moving. If your young single or whatever your status is hit me up or block me your choice. For the few trolls that come on here I'm entertained I must say lol the creativity 😉
sherry S·
I so feel the exact way ! Love my age and my experiences i have been thru to make me The Woman i am today..so many women new on here put up with bs WOW Get self esteem/don't need a man to run you ..want a man that brings good to your life and doesn't take away
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
Exactly my point.. cut the crap woe is me. One thing we established is a few have issues etc.. once you know your issues start looking for a solution. We can read about it over and over but we can't help after we extended help and then the next post is the same or similar issue 🙄. Rome wasn't built overnight nor do I expect ppl to be joyful as if nothing happened but take steps to be in that state and get out of your own head for a bit. Its like ppl are looking for constant therapy and I ain't no therapist lol but I can lend an ear every now and then. @sherrynygirl
sherry S·
Or love to comment and the girl keeps defending the woman beater man
BANNED·
You hit it right on the nail you described everything that has been going on perfectly and appropriately things on here have been really crazy lately and stuff like this was part of the reason why I had left before after being on this app for one year and I came back and I missed it I was reminded of the good people that are still on here and the positivity this app can bring but the last couple of weeks have reminded me why I left but now that the originals are stepping up and trying to increase the positivity. I am grateful I am back there are lots of posts that are put on the feed that I disagree with and I keep scrolling and pay no mind to it but lately I cannot help myself because they are so so outlandish immature or inappropriate that I can't help but to post or agree with other moms who feel the same you're right nobody has had it easy it's called life but to have a balance is key and this is not called the sadness app this is called moms life and mom's experience all emotions not just one thank you for posting this thank you for sharing a part of you that is private I hope that it sinks in for some moms that they are discriminating against others to try to prove a point meanwhile they are so wrong @starting_over39,
Tamara·
@starting_over39, Well said! I hope everyone reads this post!!!!!!!!!
Candice·
It literally has nothing to do with age either like I was 19 when I had my first child it's how you present yourself on the internet and carry yourself as a person
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
I call it internet etiquette 😂.. simply common sense 🙄 @smith0217
Tamara·
Funny how ladies that cause all of these don't even participate hmmmm
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
@loving-life complete silence now eh lol..
Amber·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
I blocked a couple people cuz I couldn't stand the posts 😬
I wanna see cute babies and moms with questions about their pregnancy or kids 😝
Jacqueline Green·
I’ve been on the app sporadically the last little while and it seems like I’ve missed a lot of things happening 😔
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
Nothing of any importance just pure negativity that would have lowered you positive vibration.. @sunshyne76
Jacqueline Green·
@starting_over39, I just scrolled far down to read older posts and now I see what you are speaking of....