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Belle Ryan
Belle Ryan
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Just needing to vent. Sometimes I think he believes I don't do anything. On my off days I try and…

Just needing to vent.

Sometimes I think he believes I don't do anything. On my off days I try and clean up alittle. Get dishes done, take the trash out, simple things that need to be done. But he gets irritated when more isn't done but sits on his ass on his off days and may clean up the couple dishes and energy drink cans that are around. I said I'd carpet clean today but I've been told I shouldn't cuz it's not good for pregnant people. I also told him I'd work on paper work that needs to be work on. I started it but hit a snag, there's paper work that I can't fill out. My landlord has to do it. Then I'm also missing some of his pay stubs I need. On top of daily stuff I'm trying to plan my baby shower with a very small budget. And dealing with his additude every day doesn't help me.

Plus TMI I tried to make today special since he had a rough day at work which he liked the idea of, while he was at work that is. When he got home, I gave him a hug and he said "i'm not in the mood for this" and pushed me away.

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lamonicafrost23

Jas LaMon

Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (34 нед.)

You're pregnant, give yourself a break. You can't do everything.

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belleryan33

Belle Ryan

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@lamonicafrost23 he says that's not an excuse. If I say I'm going to do all this cleaning I should.

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del_1520639380_miniwolfe

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@belleryan33 he needs to be understanding. When I couldn't finish everything I had on my to do list my husband says " who cares do it tomorrow". Don't beat ur self up

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belleryan33

Belle Ryan

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I'm trying not to

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harleyquinn13

Harley Quinn

Alright, first of all, YOU ARE PREGNANT. It's not expected that you have the house clean and waiting for him. He is a man, who can take on some responsibility. Even if it's sweep the floor or washing the dishes in the sink. 🙄

My husband was like this when we first moved in together (I wasn't pregnant) and it was just simply because his mom did everything for his family. I don't run that way, I will do the most that I can that day, but if stuff has to wait, he understands.

Please, please, do not beat yourself up over your husband being lazy and inconsiderate.

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