@swanson.jacquelyn I contemplated abortion and adoption but ultimately decided I couldn't do either. I've always wanted kids though. So as angry as I was at myself and the world that this happened to me, I knew neither was an option. But those are decisions you have to make for yourself and make sure you're really the one making it because if it comes from an outside source you could regret it in the long run. I've had friends who got abortions and were fine and I've had friends who were not. I have a friend who even gave her daughter to her mom to raise and signed her rights away and for her it was the right decision.
I had a similar experience to @courtneyraelochamy mine was totally unplanned and I felt like a failure to myself because I let it happen. My mood started lightening up around week 12 and finally has been getting better day by day here in my 3rd trimester. My SO's uncle told me I was starting to look brighter and happier and I definitely feel that way
@swanson.jacquelyn, mine did by like week 12. Mine was unplanned and I was scared to tell my family. But after telling them all and letting myself realize it isn't the end of the world I finally eased up