How do you get over your SO truly hurting you?

You have to willing to truly forgive and make him gain your trust back by any means. If he isnt willing then it isnt worth it

I found out my so was married the whole time we were together. He married his fathers second Lover so that he wouldn't divorce his mom. When he told me about it he did get divorced just today but I'm still hurt

I begged him to merry me for 3 years and he kept giving me a bunch of excuses never telling me he was already married

@beebaby,

What?!?!?! Wtf. I would be outta there. That is weird and he is a liar.

Yes it's a very weird situation but I do know they never had anything sexual going on

@claudia.aguilar.123, you are honestly going to believe that they never had anything sexual going on when he lied to you the whole time about it?

Please think this through. Certain things are excusable, but to me, this isn't. If he's already lie, what else is he hiding?

If he can lie for 3 yrs straight about it he most likely lied about not having sex w her. I wouldn't believe him at all