How in the fuck do you single moms have two or more kids? Why does it feel like I will never see the light at the end of the tunnel...
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@ninaberrygood15 at first I wasn't going but I just don't want my daughter around the disrespect you know... She is a very happy happy and being there she started to change and I didn't like it. And we have tried a conversation but he just blew up on me because I don't get along with three important women in his life.. his mom( which I just recently had a fallout with) his best friend (she is fake as hell and not even close to a best friend.my fiance is her best friend that's not his.. that's how I see it at least) and his aunt Betty ( she just doesn't know how to be a human of that makes sense at all... She mind as well be a robot but I don't not like her I just don't like going to her place all the time I hate when people tell me how to raise my daughter) I can't stress to Cody enough how he should stick up for me.. I mean he does just not to his mom and I'm not sure why @ninaberrygood15
See he wrong for not checking his mom. And not telling you he's paying her bills. I'm sorry your going through this. You need to really have a sit down with him. And disrespecting you is unacceptable! And if he's not defending you then he's not a man!!
@ninaberrygood15 I think you right about him choosing his mom we have been together four years and Everytime she has needed a something bc she is to lazy to do it herself she gets Cody to do it. It doesn't matter what it is wether it's going to the store for tampons or making her food, or feeding her animals... It's so annoying. And I haven't done anything yet I just got my first appointment in two weeks and there just gonna tell me I'm depressed and need a follow up so at least it's a start. I don't want to do to much because I'm pregnant and I don't want to have to worry about complications but I think it would do me some good to be medicated. And his mother knows no boundaries that's why I don't live with them.. she calls me all kinds of names in front of my daughter and constantly makes fun of the things I do for me and my daughter.. always undermines me when it comes to my little girl... It's very aggravating....@ninaberrygood15
And @1tobarjuanita14 she did everything in her power to make sure we were over 80 miles out or comfortable zone just to take advantage of us. I just found out she keeps calling into work so now my fiance is paying all her bills ect. I'm almost to that ultimative level. But I feel like I shouldn't have to do that you know what I mean
Routine is everything
And its okay to have days where you turn everything off at 7 and say ok bedtime.
One day at a time.
And like my grandmother says, it will get easier
@allycm, your not needy! You both made this baby. And women are emotional creatures so being pregnant makes it more heighten. I'm sorry but if he's choosing his mom that might never change! People have to have boundaries even his mother. And if he can't set them then mostly likely he won't. Are you doing something about your depression? You shouldn't have to do all this by yourself he's your Fiancé. How well would be as a husband if he chooses his mother over you. Just my opinion. He's not a little boy anymore. Thank you. I wish my kids had more time.
@allycm, it's hard hun and I'm sorry to hear but unfortunately a lot of guys are clingy to their mothers. I think they eventually grow out of it but it takes a while and it usually take the female giving him an ultimatum. Mom needs to let her son be a man when we as parents pass the only family our children have are there spouses and kids so we have to let them make that family I don't understand how some mothers want their grown ass son at home instead of taking care of their responsibilities smdh
You women are just so strong. I never wanted kids and then I have my daughter and she was my she is my world you know and I have another one on the way and struggling it was really bad depression and everything like that and I just really see no end me and my fiance we live separately because he was with his mom and his mom don't get along and he continues to choose his mom. Im slowly getting tired of it and everything that I do I'm doing it alone. Like what happened to our family? What happened to the support? And I'm so sorry to hear about your children's father that is the most saddest thing that I could ever possibly have to go through nobody should have to go through that but you've made it and that right there is an inspiration that right there strong. I'm still young and so some part of me feels like I need my partner you know and I hate feeling that way I hate feeling needy
The hardest experience as a mom was watching you kids fathers last breath and tell your children. I cried for them! The pain is still there. Every time I look at them. Or when they remember a moment with there father.
I have 3 and 1 on the way. I do have my man that I'm with now but he's the father of this baby I'm carrying now. My oldest kids dad passed away. You have to be very strong!! There are days you cry and then you get up and wipe your tears and keep moving!!
U will tho and it's definitely not easy but our kids is wat makes us push harder. Everything is possible don't give up and be a perfect role model to ur baby's that they can do anything on their own we don't need partners to succeed
@allycm, honey you know in your heart how you feel. I can't tell you what to do. I just know I couldn't stand for it! And a female as a best friend doesn't work at all!! You 3 women against you. My future husband has to and will stand up for me no matter what! My man would snap.