So this morning I put on Facebook my plan on me not wanting anyone visiting me while I was in the…
So this morning I put on Facebook my plan on me not wanting anyone visiting me while I was in the hospital and to give me a couple days alone with my baby when I get out . . & That I hope everyone understands. . WELL not any other family member has said anything but of course my mother did. . She said I was being selfie cause she wanted to be there to make sure nothing happened and to see the baby and leave , then she pulled this thing saying that what if my sisters , grandpa , grandma , & step brother wanted to be there too.... She thinks I'm doing this cause her and my fiance don't get along at all and I don't want her in the room . . When honestly it's all me , ONLY cause my family and my fiance's family don't get along . . And cause my fiance's aunt is handy cap "no judgement" and she is a really dirty person , plus his sister in law is always sick , so it would only be his mom and dad able to come and my mom and sisters "only cause my m doesn't have custody of them and she may only get them when I have my baby" plus my grandpa and grandma n step brother.... What do I do?
Camden·
Girl, it's your baby, your choice! When we had my son I told everyone they could not come! I told them that we would call them when we were ready.... we got some pushback.... "well I just want to be there just in case" or my favorite, my mother in law... "I just need to be here so I feel like I did something" HA!!!!!! NOPE! I simply told everyone that by them sitting in the waiting room, it would stress me out... we already knew my son would go to ICU, and my husband I needed time to listen to the docs and assess what our next steps were... in the end, everyone understood...
Jasmine Salinas·
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@purpledpink smh , everyone is mad at me now thinking I want to keep my child away from them . . Also cause we're planning on moving out of state only cause we live in a small town and there's no good jobs around , we need to provide for our child but everyone thinks I just want to keep her away
Camden·
@anayasmommy, they can think what they want, you can't control that. What you can control is doing what is right for your family, and it seems like it is. At the end of the day, they are family, they may be "upset" but staying mad would defeat the purpose of all they are "fighting for". Meaning if they try to block y'all out bc they can't go to the hospital, they will wind up not seeing your baby at all. Why does she not like your fiancé? Also, if they don't get along, I don't blame you for not wanting her in there, that's more stress on you! I did have my mom up at the hospital, I let her and ONLY HER, sit in the waiting room till I got out of surgery. When my husband went to ICU with my son, my mom came in to take care of me. After my husband got back to my room, my mom left. I had a crazy first c section and I wanted her there in case something did happen to me, but she was not allowed in the room before, and she left as soon as my husband got back to help me.