@blessed_mommy6 thank you

I'm a stepmom also and at first I didn't like it but after a while I got use to it. He needs to get a job. Hun think of this what if the tables were turned and he felt how you feel. You wouldn't like it or you would feel some time of way. It will get better.

Make his ass get a job. You should not be the one paying out for him to see his kids.

Oh and he needs to get a job so that you wont be the one taking care of his children.

You cant change the situation because they were there first try changing the way you feel. You will be miserable feeling that way. Especially seeing that its people your husband love. Hopefully it will get better. This is just something that comes with dating or marrying someone with children.

@junesmommy_15 A huge part of it is the moms... The drama.... The money which we do not have at all... And when we get money... It goes to having to go see them (we live four hours away... So it takes about 200 bucks at least to go see them... And my husband doesn't have a job... So MY whole tiny paycheck goes toward him seeing his kids that I already have issues with)....One of them is cool... The other two from a different mom annoy the living shit out of me.... And another huge part is jealousy. Not gonna lie. I want it to be me, him and our daughter. Obviously I know there is nothing I can do to change it. They are here to stay. I should be happy he loves his kids... But I literally want to throw myself out a window when I hear him on the phone with them. I know it's bad. Please don't say anything mean... I feel awful. I don't know why I feel so fucked up about this. It's just really bad... And I don't know how to change it😭

What make you hate it?

Accept it hun or leave that's all you can do , you knee this when you met him .