Ladies..... I desperately need help. My husband has three kids... Which makes me a step-mom -_- I fucking hate it. I can't stand it. I know I'm fucked up for feeling this way... But it's bad. My issues with it are eating me alive. Any other step moms out there that can relate or give advice?
😭
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Not having a mom right now really fucking sucks. My birth mom is a POS and I refuse to let her be a part of my life. And my step mom is in my life daily but she's such a bitch and favors her sons and their wives over me so she's basically dead to me too! So annoyed I could cry for days. Fucking hormones! 😢
Since everyone is telling me to.. Here it is.. Well on mom life you stated your procedure was for a hole in your stomach.. But on instagram you "kicked cancers ass" and basically had throat cancer?.. I don't like liars!! Why lie?! I lost the people i loved most to cancer! That's not something to fucking joke about! I lost all respect for you! And if you really do have cancer why lie on mom life saying it was for a hole in your stomach?it just makes no sense to me!
I am a middle aged white women who listen to rap music I enjoy music and love niggas but why do they just want to fuck me just because I have a big butt like omg I'm pregnant and they still want to fuck me sometimes I let them when im horny Cuz my bd stingy I'm just rambling.. should I tell my bd I like blacks instead of white men?
c. g·
Accept it hun or leave that's all you can do , you knee this when you met him .
China·
What make you hate it?
Cambria·
Мама дочки-младенца
@junesmommy_15 A huge part of it is the moms... The drama.... The money which we do not have at all... And when we get money... It goes to having to go see them (we live four hours away... So it takes about 200 bucks at least to go see them... And my husband doesn't have a job... So MY whole tiny paycheck goes toward him seeing his kids that I already have issues with)....One of them is cool... The other two from a different mom annoy the living shit out of me.... And another huge part is jealousy. Not gonna lie. I want it to be me, him and our daughter. Obviously I know there is nothing I can do to change it. They are here to stay. I should be happy he loves his kids... But I literally want to throw myself out a window when I hear him on the phone with them. I know it's bad. Please don't say anything mean... I feel awful. I don't know why I feel so fucked up about this. It's just really bad... And I don't know how to change it😭
China·
You cant change the situation because they were there first try changing the way you feel. You will be miserable feeling that way. Especially seeing that its people your husband love. Hopefully it will get better. This is just something that comes with dating or marrying someone with children.
China·
Oh and he needs to get a job so that you wont be the one taking care of his children.
Deleted·
Make his ass get a job. You should not be the one paying out for him to see his kids.
Ruby Weber·
Мама четверых детей
I'm a stepmom also and at first I didn't like it but after a while I got use to it. He needs to get a job. Hun think of this what if the tables were turned and he felt how you feel. You wouldn't like it or you would feel some time of way. It will get better.
Cambria·
Мама дочки-младенца
@blessed_mommy6 thank you