Fair warning. This is going to be pretty long, so read at your own risk. I'm just venting. So.. My in laws well my one…

Fair warning. This is going to be pretty long, so read at your own risk. I'm just venting.

So.. My in laws well my one in law is starting to pick on my husband, and their twins. He makes everything a damn competition, when neither my husband nor I are competing. Like for instance; my husband has a part time job right, 20 hours a week right. Doesn't seem like much I know, but he makes 20 dollars and some cents. Not to mention the over time, and I make 9 an hour doing what I love. Well together we should bring in 1200 every two weeks, that together. Well soon my husband will be full time, and still getting paid the same. Well sense I'm prior military, I am in running for his part time position. So that 20 times 80, and another 20 times 40. Now when his twin brings up money, and my husband proceeds to try and help him find a job. He ask my husband what he gets paid, and will it turn full time. So he just answers, because he thinks it's friendly convo. Well then here we go, with the... Well when my gamer team finally starts getting sponsors, we will make more then what you make in on paycheck. Well like I said my husband thinks friendly convo, and says," That's great Brandon." And proceeds," You get to do what you love, and get paid for it." So nothing competitive with my husband, because he works to support his family and I help him. We are a team of course! So here goes the asshole," Yeah well I'll be making more than you." My husband finally catches on, and says," Brandon I got to get these kids something to eat, I'll see you next Sunday." Yeah that's the best freaking part, this whole thing ALWAYS goes down in church!! IN CHURCH!!! Well my husband recently posted a joke on Facebook about the oldest being the smartest, and he has three siblings. The other two took the joke, and of course did the no way man LOL. His stupid twin brings up literally in no joking way possible, how many books he has done read in his 33 years so far. 😳🙄🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️.. Well all those books, and he lives under the roof of his 30 year old younger brother, has a car only because his mom paid it off before she passed, has no job, is not married, has no girlfriend, plays on his game and computer all day, and he's 33. Did I mention his younger brother is gonna be married next month!?! His wife won't put up with it for long. Then our sermon today was about forgiveness, and yes it hit home. Because i wanna punch that twin of his, so hard in the face. I mean I can become friends with someone, who was once a drug addict. It's hard to forgive someone, who does this kind of crap over and over. It doesn't bother my husband, but I'm very protective over family. So I get so ill with him treating my husband this way. I know what I need to do, and that move on and forgive. Live our life, and fuck him. But my husband won't let me delete him off our Facebook, and he has good reasons too. So I stay off of our Facebook. I stay off of it for all the lies it feeds us people too, and the division it brings. Just had to you know!!! Urgh!! Like my kids love their uncle Brandon, but uncle Brandon don't love them. Since their grandma his mom passed, they haven't seen none of them only at church. Like I want to live in Cali with my mom, or near my mom. So they can get the family experience!!

I mean I'm gonna try to get off my high horse, and invite him to thanksgiving. Show him no one here hates him, and he can come around more! Especially if I get my husband old job. This really helped. Venting did the job!!