My best friend needs advise her husband went out last night and didn't get home till 830a and she…

I would've locked him out. If you tolerate then they are going to do it. They only do what you allow. Now what do you think he was doing until 830 🤔

What was the husband excuse? I would ask him calmly and than pack his bags

@miniwolfe, she said he was to drunk to even ask questions lol I don't know I would of blown up lol

@beachmama, she called him once and said he was on his way home and then went back to bed...your way seems right haha I just know i wouldn't deal with that and I told her that!

Tell her I said... Confront him in a rational calm manor. Explain to him how your feelings were affected by his behavior and that you would like for him to let you know if he is going to be out all night for his own safety and for the sake of your worrying. A relationship is built on trust. He's not going to trust you enough to be honest with you of you go screaming at him every time he pisses you off lol. So just remain calm and talk it out. Most men wont want to listen but its up to you to stay calm with your approach and try to relate to him. Be understanding instead of man and maybe he might surprise you with his reaction.

@missheatherbaby I couldn't of said it better....

Well not that this is the advice if it was me when we r in good mood I will jst disappear for two nights since he disappeared for one night to show him that don't start what u can't finish and I can do that better than him. I'm all abt 50/50

Which the advice I will jst keep quiet