Who else has an issue with the people who judge you for having back to back pregnancies, like it's something we planned…

Who else has an issue with the people who judge you for having back to back pregnancies, like it's something we planned to be pregnant for 2 years straight, and they insist on telling you the dangers of being pregnant back to back. My specific case I had a 5 month break basically and my birth control failed me again!

Yes all my children are birth control fails but I have always wanted 4 kids, i just wanted to have planned my pregnancies. I dont know where I would be without my children, my husband feels the same way.