i still live w/ my parents & my boyfriend (father of my child) is going to look at a house today..…

I am 26, have a husband, 2 sons and a daughter on the way, I was raised by my grandparents since I was 14 and there are days I still get home sick and I tell my grandma I just want to come home! Lol. Don't rush it, if your parents are okay with you being there take the help until you feel ready. Rushing tends to lead to not the greatest outcome sometimes.

I don't think it's bad ! Moving out of your parents home is a really big step in life that's when your going your own way ! And if you move out you'll be doing a lot on your own if you don't feel ready don't do it because it won't work out. (:

@mami3st2011, i've always been a home body & got home sick very easily. i'll just miss not being home with my mom and sister!

@dayanaavila17, that's what i'm thinking, i'm just not ready yet!

@baileyy, girl it's a huge deal moving in with your so comes with so many responsibilities ! Just think about it he'll be wanting you to be basically a wife for him it's not like now you guys go out have fun and then you each go home . You'll be going to the same house etc.. you'll be expected to cook meals, clean etc.. yea he could help you but you get me lol because omg I know girls who've moved in with their bf and don't even know how to cook! and don't clean that's crazy so just be prepared if you are ! Because it's not just about moving in and watching tv with him I hope I don't seem rude I'm just trying to get my point out of being ready before you take that step

@dayanaavila17, that's partly why i'm nervous, i mean i can cook & clean & i do that at my house already but it's gonna be different. he works a lot so it's gonna be just me at the house a lot when i'm not at work and i don't like being alone lbs that and bills i'm so scared of bills too and the commitment of moving in w/ someone & paying rent as well as all the other bills & idk how living with each other would affect our relationship. it could make it better or could make it worse, i'm just not sure which one yet lol

I still live with my parents and my boyfriend and are getting married in April I told him I didn't want to leave my parents house yet (I have speration anxiety really bad) so instead of us getting a house he just moved into my parents house with me

@hannahdesarai, that's exactly how i am & i would love if he would just move here but i live in a different town than him & he has a 3 year old son who goes to school in his town & would have to drive 20 mins to take his son to school everyday for 2 hours so i don't think that would work😭