Yea. I often think if I wasn't married, I would have left because compromising and forgiving is BIG in marriage. But I'm thankful I did have kids after marriage because we get to be an example for our children & our family & friends. A lot of our generation have given up on marriage and find it meaningless which is sad
@torrey_ Yeah life long love is great to have especially when it comes to having children but with just boyfriend, and girlfriend you don't really have that promise of forever, and with marriage its also nice knowing that when times get hard you always have each others support, and comfort 😊 true love in marriage just gives you alot of peace
@amberjacq, it's just when you're married I think that it's easier to compromise because you guys have made a life long commitment to eachother. With just a relationship
It's just weird idk
I've always said wait until you're married to have kids and I'm 20 lol 😂 Im so glad I listened to myself and waited til marriage to have kids because I know I couldn't do it without my husbands love, encouragement, and support