So apparently my hubbys new favorite pastime is to criticize everything I eat until I cannot eat it…
So apparently my hubbys new favorite pastime is to criticize everything I eat until I cannot eat it anymore 🙄 literally if it isn't a meal he basically makes me feel guilty for eating. If I snack he gives me this "are you sure about that?" look and then bitches about how loud I chew (um I chew with my mouth closed across the room?) or licking a popsicle, or how slow I eat or whatever...like he's concerned about how much weight I'm gaining. Ive been monitoring my weight gain and it's healthy and normal at this point so what's the problem?? I'm fucking hungry!! I worked my ass off today getting rid of a bunch of shit and cleaning. I only had breakfast and dinner (no lunch, just a small bowl of goldfish) and just wanted some goddamn popcorn. But no, I'm sitting here with a rumbling tummy and a glass of water because he guilted me out of it 🙄🙄 I wish I could just say "fuck off im hungry" but I already deal with body image issues and they just get worse when I'm pregnant and I can't help but hold his opinion of my in high regard.. Uuuggghhhhh fuuuuuck. I just want a snack 😭
Harley Snook·
Мама дочки-младенца
Eat the snack. If your stomach is growling, your body wants you to eat. When I was pregnant, waiting too long to eat made me puke bile and the last thing a pregnant woman wants to taste is stomach acid. You're beautiful. Your body is working so hard right now to create a human, you need food. Tell your husband to shut his mouth. Literally men's ONLY focus while we are carrying their children should be to support us.
Dalehe86·
Мама сына-младенца
Make sure you eat. Don't let anyone ever make you feel less than what you are. You are creating a life and it takes a lot for your body to do that. When I was pregnant I would get nauseous if I didn't have little snacks. Listen to your body and not to someone who knows nothing about what your body is going through. You need to think about what's best for you and baby at this point. F his opinion....if he can't support you then I'd say... 👋🏻
claudia amezcua·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I eat all day
My so. Said again im like yup im hungry you want some no ok.
Im pregnant so im going to eat if im hungry there is no way i will starve. Oh no my baby and i are hungry or want a snack just because sure will have one because i want it.
Gloria·
В ожидании первенца
I feel ya. My husband has also started calling me a cow lately 😭 when I told him how hurtful it was he changed my pet name to "moo moo" 😭 he thinks it's cute but I find it insulting
Rachel Wedewer·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@pretty1npunk, that's horrible!
Sarah ·
Tell him to FO! There are so many healthy snacks that you can have that don't have a lot of calories! Popcorn is actually on that list!... as long as it's not like movie Theator popcorn, lol.
If I get hungry again after a carb dinner I make a bowl of veggies or popcorn.
If he isn't Mr. Muscle buff man then he had not right to criticize you on anything!
Sarah ·
@pretty1npunk, 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 if I were you I'd be bitch slapping someone!
Sarah ·
@pretty1npunk, oh better yet! Call him Pinky and see how he likes the insult!
Sarah ·
Also it's better for your body to break down smaller snack size meals than a 3 big ones. I also get sick if I don't eat. The other moms are right! You are making a baby and that takes so much. Again, tell him to FO!