My mom talking to her friend downstairs and she was telling them to pray for my SO (because of the…

My mom talking to her friend downstairs and she was telling them to pray for my SO (because of the hurricane) . Which she said her husband and hesitantly said that then said well let's hope and made a face. It makes me not wanna get married for awhile just because of my family. They either introduce him as my fiance which he isn't or what my mom just did. Like there was something so horriblly wrong with having a kid before marriage. I mean it annoys me in a way because I'd like to be married and have a kid but when my family acts like that it just gives me the nothing is wrong with that deal with it attitude.....