I don't understand ... I ask for help around the house he says he will never does .. he offers to help and still never…

Omg !!!!!! I read this and I thought I wrote it! He says he will help but never does. I have to beg him and then he gets frustrated.

Girl, preach. Tell me how my man is on the fucking Xbox since he got home from work. Mind you I have 4 kids. The two oldest need help with homework, the 3 year old is trashing her room, and the newborn is screaming because she is fighting sleep. Do you think he gets off the game? Negative. But he has the nerve to look at me crazy because the baby is crying. But when I smash the Xbox I'll be wrong 🤦🏻‍♀️

@1sttimegypsymama, that's my life , but than I complain to much ? I don't understand like it's aggravating

@missheatherbaby, bruh yes ... he gets home and jumps on his dumb ass Xbox ... and doesn't help me at all .. I put the baby to sleep and he woke up crying and he continues to play his game... I'm like I know you fucking hear him .. and of course I had to go get the baby .. & yeah I already broke his remote control he got a new one .. his Xbox is next 😴

@missheatherbaby, you have a lot more shit going on than me with your kids 😩 but it's the principle of it all

@chelseanmicahmathis, they must be 😂😴 put them on a boat and ship them off somewhere they're uselesss here 😂😂🙃🤷🏼‍♀️

@tiffanyf, it's definitely the principle. Like get off the game and help us, damn.

@chelseanmicahmathis, @tiffanyf, oh and let's not forget that mine said, "you should be happy that your man is home playing the game and not out all night like these other niggas." Really bro, really?

He's daddy.. I think he needs to learn how to be one and offer more of a helping hand. I don't think you are wrong it's frustrating doing everything all the time by yourself. I'm a single mom and I've learned to accept it but I also live with family who don't help clean and leave there crap all over and that is what frustrates me! I'd try to talk to him.

I feel you my hubby works sometimes he will try to help out but sometime its like he is too tired and I'm not I'm up changing feeding him during the night have to deal with a 8 month old and a cranky 4 years old like you can take the baby for a hour so I can have some time to myself to cook dinner or take a bath but I doesn't help cause the baby always wants me @tiffanyf

I hate men, I personally know only of a few decent ones, but you never know which one you're going to get,am I right? Would be great to throw them away and head off to some all women housing complex and finally free our lives from this screwed up emotional state as well as get the help and support and understanding we and our kids need...but fantasizing won't help anybody, ugh....