found out the sex of my baby today when i was supposed to wait until my gender reveal party on monday. i'm happy i found out because now i can surprise my friends and family but my friends are making me feel shitty because i found out what my baby is. i don't regret finding out i just feel bad now because they're making me feel like my reveal party is ruined because i already know what the baby is.
I knew what I was having at my reveal, nothing wrong with that. Don't feel bad girl!!
@tyoungdeer, a lot of people find out! it just sucks they're making me feel bad about it :( no one else knows but me, my mom, & my boyfriend. i don't see how i ruined it🤷🏼♀️
Don't let them make you feel bad! Maybe they just feel like you should've been surprised along with everyone one else, you never know 🤷🏻♀️ you didn't ruin it!!
Don't listen to them! It's YOUR child! You need time for your own emotions, and your well being for you and baby trumps anything they can say.
I was scared to find out early, too, afraid of being disappointed because I really wanted a boy. Of course I was bummed, but that also gave time to digest and come around to being happy before we told everyone at the reveal. With the support of your SO, happy healthy mom and baby will win the day 💕💙
I bet the rest just get on the 'excited for baby' train when you announce!
@baileyy Omg congrats!!!!! I knew it!!! Your gender reveal isn't ruined your friends and family will be so happy!!! ❤❤❤
Me & my boyfriend found out together when we had planned to wait so we could be surprised at our reveal but we still plan on having one for friends & family! so don't worry girl you did nothing wrong!
@spollock24, yeah when i first found out i was literally bawling my eyes out because i wanted a boy and tbh i don't wanna bawl my eyes out in front of all those people😂 it'll be fun though because i can still surprise everyone else!
@bfoutch98, that's the exact boat i'm in right now! lol i still can't wait to see the look on my family's faces
@baileyy, Congrats by the way! I just found out a few days I'm having a baby boy too💙 & me & you aren't but a few days apart😊
@bfoutch98, congrats!!! i'm so happy i'm having a boy, & that's cool we're both having boys ☺️💙 do you have a name picked out yet?
@baileyy, thank you! I really wanted a girl but after a few seconds of finding out I was more than happy that it was a boy! & we haven't decided on a name yet but we have a few in mind. Do you have name picked out?
@bfoutch98, i was so convinced it was a girl but once i found out it was a boy i couldn't stop crying. just so happy he's healthy. but yeah his name is Karter Anthony!
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@tayler, @juliaschade41, it's a baby boy💙
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Congrats!