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#mombassadorchat Moms, Today's chat is with @jordyn_beth 🎊

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Moms,

Today's chat is with @jordyn_beth 🎊

We're chatting on being a student while raising a baby!

Here's her bio:

My name is Jordyn. I am a junior in college and I work at a Boys and Girls Club. I also own my own health and wellness business through It Works. My boyfriend Ben is in the national guard and is a manager at Culver's. Our son Bradley is 8 months old and such a happy baby!

Check out my new blog, Managing Motherhood: jordynbeth.wordpress.com

Here are some tips about attending school and raising a baby:

1. Get organized and stay clean. A messy area can make keeping responsibilities straight a lot harder. Every Sunday I make sure our house and my car is spotless. I clean out my backpack and pumping bag to make sure I'm organized and have everything.

2. Communicate with professors. Accidents happen. You may forget an assignment or you can't come to class because your baby is sick. If you talk with your professors early on, they probably will be willing to work with you! They want to see you succeed, so they should help you.

3. Write everything down. Need to check out a book? Read something? Grocery shop? Write it down in a planner and check that planner multiple times a day. It will be a lifesaver. Even if you think you'll remember it, write it down.

4. Ask for help! You're taking on a lot, and you shouldn't be expected to do it on your own. See if a family member can watch your baby so you can get work done. Find a classmate who can get notes for you if you can't be there. Take care of yourself. You can't be the best mom and student if you aren't taking care of yourself too. You don't need to be perfect!

For more tips, check out my blog post about this subject: https://jordynbeth.wordpress.com/2017/08/22/surviving-college-with-a-baby/

Ask any questions and I'll be happy to answer them!

A huge thanks to @jordyn_beth for hosting the chat! 💚

🌟Tag @jordyn_beth in the comments to ask her questions 🌟

Let's get chatting!

🍂mom.life_usa🍁

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jordyn_beth

J

@alexanderdavidmommy2k15, I found a daycare I LOVE. I drive 20 minutes one way everyday so my son can go there. I have a good relationship with my advisor at school, so she can steer me toward classes with more understanding professors. I make sure I tell them right away I have a son. I don't use him as an excuse, but that way if there is a problem, the relationship is set up right from the start. Make sure you stay very organized and ask for help when you need it :) remember why you keep trying to go back to school. It's something you want! Remind yourself of that why whenever you feel like quitting

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jordyn_beth

J

Hey guys! I'm pumping right now, and I'm here to answer any questions and I will be most of the night!

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taishonnat

Tae

Мама сына (3 года)

@jordyn_beth, don't really have a question just want to say THANKS! You inspire me to keep pushing with college while raising my 3 year old

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jordyn_beth

J

@taishonnat, of course!! I'm so proud of you for following through with your education even through all the challenges😊

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queentero

Yesenia Quintero

В ожидании первенца

How do I manage my time with school, work and my life, my husband is in the army so he's on deployment and my mom is going to help me with my daughter but I don't want her watching the baby all the time, I have my bachelors in nursing but I'm getting my masters in nurse practitioner. HELP

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alexandersmomma

Samantha Almendarez

Мама сына (1 год)

How did You continue going to school without being distracted? I've drop out 3 times and I want to go back I just don't trust no one to watch my son. Any tips on how to go back to school?

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jordyn_beth

J

@queentero, if your mom is willing, let her do it! Definitely don't try to be super mom. I have to schedule out every little thing in my planner (when I eat lunch, when I pump, etc). That's the only way I stay on task. When I have free time I make sure 100% of my attention is on my son because we don't get a lot of time together during the school year

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jordyn_beth

J

@alexanderdavidmommy2k15, I found a daycare I LOVE. I drive 20 minutes one way everyday so my son can go there. I have a good relationship with my advisor at school, so she can steer me toward classes with more understanding professors. I make sure I tell them right away I have a son. I don't use him as an excuse, but that way if there is a problem, the relationship is set up right from the start. Make sure you stay very organized and ask for help when you need it :) remember why you keep trying to go back to school. It's something you want! Remind yourself of that why whenever you feel like quitting

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alexandersmomma

Samantha Almendarez

Мама сына (1 год)

@jordyn_beth, thanks I'll keep this in mind when I move and go back in Jan but do u have any tips on how to pay bc I doubt financial aid will want to help anymore

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amichelle2

Alicia Michelle💕✨

Мама двоих (младенец)

This such common sense but I swear on my babies I needed this soooooo bad..I started school when my son was 8/9 months but now that I have my daughter and won't be able to start until the spring ..it seems like something hard to balance and keep organized..and I feel like I wanna quit school ..I also want to start wrkin again..I remind myself everyday that I can do this and will pass every class jus like before !! Only diff now is that I have two babies to grind hard for !!

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jordyn_beth

J

@alexanderdavidmommy2k15, have you checked? I'm not entirely sure how that would work. If not, there's private loans, but you have to pay them right away. Maybe try to find a side gig? I do network marketing as well as run a blog from my phone and computer to make extra cash!

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jordyn_beth

J

@amichelle2, you can do it!! It's great motivation 💚 especially knowing that other moms are going through it too!

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alexandersmomma

Samantha Almendarez

Мама сына (1 год)

@jordyn_beth, what's network marketing and ok thanks I'll look up private loans

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jordyn_beth

J

@alexanderdavidmommy2k15, for example, I'm a distributor for It Works! I share about the products and get paid for it. I went through sallie mae when I went to a private school. It sucks, but whatever works!

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alexandersmomma

Samantha Almendarez

Мама сына (1 год)

@jordyn_beth, oh ok I've tried it works it just didn't work for me

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jordyn_beth

J

@alexanderdavidmommy2k15, the products or becoming a distributor? Just curious 😊

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alexandersmomma

Samantha Almendarez

Мама сына (1 год)

@jordyn_beth, being a distributor

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kelzkirkland

Kelly Kirkland

@jordyn_beth I just finish my Bachelor's of Art degree in Complementary and Alternative Health. Congratulations on being to juggle motherhood, work and school.

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jordyn_beth

J

@alexanderdavidmommy2k15, ohh okay! Well if you have any questions about that or school, let me know😊are you planning on starting school again?

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jordyn_beth

J

@kelzkirkland, congrats! That's awesome 😊 and thank you so much!

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alexandersmomma

Samantha Almendarez

Мама сына (1 год)

@jordyn_beth, yes I am either in California where I'm at rn or in Arizona when I move

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amichelle2

Alicia Michelle💕✨

Мама двоих (младенец)

@jordyn_beth, thank you ❤️ ...it really is !!!

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staceymommy2012

🦋Stacey🦋

@jordyn_beth, no questions but good ideas from a fellow junior with a preschooler and baby in college 👍🏼

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kelzkirkland

Kelly Kirkland

@jordyn_beth Thanks and you're welcome.

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jordyn_beth

J

@staceymommy2012, thank you and awesome job! Proud of you 😊

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jordyn_beth

J

@ramonoariana01, my campus actually has lactation rooms! I scheduled my classes with breaks in between. If they are full I pump in my car

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kittykouture

Summyrh

@jordyn_beth does this apply to highschoolers this will be harder for us

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jordyn_beth

J

@summyrhandjace, sort of yes! Have you talked to your guidance counselor? They're probably going to become your best friend at school when it comes to issues and questions

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jordyn_beth

J

@ramonoariana01, for high school, your best bet is to talk to your counselor! They can help you figure out times :)

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brittneycjo

Brittney Johnson

Мама сына-младенца

When it gets suspiciously quiet.... Pretty sure that breastmilk bottle is bad by now 🤢

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I always heard it works is a scam what tips can you advise someone on how to successful ?@jordyn_beth,

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jordyn_beth

J

@smilingwithmyawesome4kids, be genuine about it and build relationships! I truly love the products, but I don't push the business on people. It does take work because money isn't free. You can't expect to get rich fast. With some hard work and motivation you can be successful 😊

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Who do you sell to @jordyn_beth,

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jordyn_beth

J

@smilingwithmyawesome4kids, friends and family. I have a decent sized following on social media so they often buy products too

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johnsonarriel24

Arriel Johnson

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Wow awesome post.I needed that

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