Can't believe how shit the benefits system is how am I meant to live off 62 a week it sounds alright…

Oh I no its terrible I always have to ask the OH for money for birthdays and Christmas got a lot of respect for people who are single and do it on there own xx

Don't you get tax credits x

@missashleyanne defo that's what I make my fella do xxx

@missashleyanne yep I have his bank card it all goes in to one account now x x

@missashleyanne @srose1989 we do the same, not married but we have a house and baby together so put bills together x

It is so shit!I mean if I could I'd go back to work now but I can't so have to wait til my daughter is 2 for free childcare. Having to get my OH to give me extra so stupid. I feel for people on their own! Xx

@missashleyanne yeah we could but I don't trust to give him money 😂 he never lasts with anything but I guess that's an option could talk to him about it later maybe would be easier. Xx

And yeah I get child tax credits but they are paying me a shit amount 😂. And they are taking money off me cos apparently they over paid me just a joke! @srose1989 xx

Now if u both work u get 30 hours free nursery iv just gone bk to work can't survive , do u get income support they stopped mine me and my 3 kids and partner was all liven off 105 a week it terrible x

Yeah i know that but it's getting a job with them hours and I want to spend time with lily-mae whilst she's still young got such a bond with her I'd hate to take her to a nursery yet. Oh really don't blame you gonna see how it goes. To be fair £105 a week is alot better than £62 a week 😂 I would be happy with thay lol x

I have 3 kids tho love it's hard graft , sometimes what has to be has to be iv gone back this week horrible to leave the baby x

@srose1989 oh I know hun I hated my last job to far away and I will find a job but no idea what I'd do leaving her she's so attached to me :( and same with me with her. Will have to see how we go x

Be good to get her used to ppl yano love or when It comes to her have to go to proper nursery ul have ur work cut out i always put mine in some sort off nursery even a day a week to get them used to others. X

@srose1989 yeah I know but I thought I'd enjoy her first birthday and first Christmas first then look for work next year be a nightmare to find work now. I won't be leaving her out of nursery long I'll try find a place noone told me about 30 hour free child care I know someone who only gets 15 hours lol doesn't it depend on how many hours you work lol x

Not to sure love enquire about it its only just come in its if use both work I think x

Oh right I'll enquire about it thank hun xx

It you work 16 hours a week you get more money I know its stupid I don't want to go back to work but have to xx

Well my last job wasn't being fair with me couldn't guarantee me 16 hours so I couldn't be assed with their shit lol. We are having a joint account now so I know we will be alright :) xx