I often ask myself....am I a good mom? I work all the time...I don't know the first thing about teaching my kid how to talk..wave..much lest potty train and form a full sentence with an entire language. I always feel so lost thinking about the future. :(
We're all just winging it. Our children will grow up to be perfect if we love them. Don't stress on the future and make your time valuable NOW.
The fact that you worry about these things, means you pay attention and worry about your child. You are a good mom.