How can you separate yourself from someone that makes your emotionally unstable when that person is your mom. This has…

Its easy once u find that PEACE & become emotionally stable

@momma_dee I try. And everytime I'm OK I distance myself.

But idk how she gives me some sob story and I don't know why I get filled with guilt and end up back to where I started.

@sunflowerchildmamaa, I get u. Well thats your mom, even if you wanted to stay away, there's always gonna be that guilt or reason to go back. But its okay to protect your peace & distance yourself again..

I've had to block my parents multiple times and cut them off. It's ok to take breaks. Especially with children you can't afford the extra drama sometimes. I always tell ppl if you're not helping, you're hurting. No in between.

@momma_dee I'm gonna try. Again it just sucks. Like I try to be in a good place mostly for MY little family you know.

@kambam I'm thinking of doing the same. It hurts BC i had a different idea for Harley. Like having close grandparents and stuff.

Well it won't be forever. If they act right then that's fine but neither of you need the negativity. Or can always try a family meeting. Hope it gets better for you

@sunflowerchildmamaa, yup. Youre a wife & a mom first & your emotional state matters for the sake of your new family.