I don't know if I should have a baby shower or not. I don't really want one. But people keep telling…

I didn't have a baby shower, I just shared some special time with my closest family members. I put some little decorations, and my mom helped me make some food, and If they wanted to buy anything they could, but I mostly just shared some time with them.

I didn't want a shower but ended up having a small bbq type thing. no games or things like that. Just family and a couple close friends.

I don't like being the center of attention. I'm kind of shy.

If you don't want one don't have one. Just spend time with your family. My mom wants me to have a baby shower but I told her I only wanted a family gathering. She's pushed for her way this entire time. I finally told her if it's not mostly how I'd like it there won't be one. Cuz I won't be there. She finally agreed to have it my way

@belleryan33, I probably won't have one.

I didn't have one this time even though it pissed some people off. It's a nice thought but honestly it was an awful lot of stress last time being surrounded by people all watching me.

Instead of having a shower there's a new wave called a baby sprinkle.. lol it's just family and they get u smaller gifts