Ok so this is a comment thread from Dr phils Facebook page. It is of a man who was falsely accused…

Wow...if you can't trust the man you're with who you conceived your child with, you have a big problem.

Wow that's ridiculous

@avahcruz @mami1234 literally my thoughts exactly. Why would you be with a man forget about having a child with him if you can't trust him. People are so dumb now a days I can't even process it.

Ummm ok. I don't have girls but if I did my husband will bathe her, change her diaper etc. I trust my husband!! He isn't slime pervert. Get a life!

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@scarapella1 like for real. Don t put you daughter in dresses and Don t let him be a father is what I got from her comment. People are ignorant.

As someone who was molested basically most of my childhood, I trust my husband with our daughters... without trust, you have no relationship..... smh... some people are so dumb... but I bet "Debbie" is the kind of person that jumps from man to man.. in which case, don't leave your kids alone with a man you just met.. regardless of your child's gender..

@rose135975 I'm sorry about what you went through. I understand that it happens a lot no matter what gender but like I said if you don't trust a man why would you have a child with him. I know my husband would never have any kind of inappropriate thought like that toward a child let alone his daughter. No normal person would. I was never molested as a child which i feel badly for children eho have but I know who I could trust and not trust with my child. A mother just knows.

@babyveach I completely agree.. well to an extent. Unfortunately people can surprise you. I do agree that I totally trust my husband, but that doesn't mean I'd trust his cousin or uncle or my own relatives. I don't see how anyone could ever try to justify harming a child... they are so innocent and amazing... I just can't fathom it..

I totally agree. I wouldn't trust his cousins to babysit either because like you said they can surprise you but I do trust his brother and father with my life and know they would take the best care of my daughter. They're are always going to be people you trust more then others.

@rose135975

@babyveach that's for sure. I'm very selective with people I let around my daughters.. I was 3 when I started getting molested, and let me tell you.. the night before my daughters 3rd birthday, all I did all night was cry...

@rose135975 I couldn't imagine how hard that is for you. Looking at your child so innocent and perfect and imagine yourself like that and someone take advantage of you like that. All I can say is you are so strong and the fact you are able to trust a man again is huge.