I'm so tired of my husband not helping out with the kids I'm trying not to get mad about it but I'm…

I think you have every right to be mad about it..

Have you talked to him about it?

@chocolatemomma, yea he knows but says I was all night I'm tired well that isn't my damn problem idc what you were doing all night

Yeah! He definitely should help and not leave it all up to you.

@chocolatemomma, he just woke up and is instantly on his phone instead of asking if I need help

You have to put your foot down and make him help. I'd leave since he's awake. Show him how it feels.