@gabsmommy, @hallek129, I give him toys I even give him like a tube of diaper cream or ya know something that he thinks is something he's not suppose to have I have even tried giving him my phone but he looks at it for a few seconds and then bam he's uninterested and throws it the only and I mean ONLY time we have an easy diaper change is when we go out and I have to change him in the store bathroom on the changing table he does so good with that strap across him I mean yeah it's still holding him down but I figured being restricted would still cause him to scream but it don't. I don't understand.

My daughter gives me the same problem I usually just give her something to occupy her while I'm changing her and she'll sit still

Been that way for months. It use to be a happy time in our house but not anymore at all. I sing to him to get him to calm down but sometimes it's just all out screams

Have you tried giving him a toy? That's what my sister used to do with my nieces and it worked lol

Yep! I think they all go through that phase. I had to really show my son who was boss to get him to stop! But they do eventually stop. Just keep at it!